4 months this one plate is obsessed with me and pays for everything and shit tests me sometimes if I can pay and I dismiss and she laughs and pays with no problem.

Lately this girl has been bitching at me that I should “respect” her more and had started bringing up how much money she spent on me and blah blah blah(Probably BB pays for everything and she wants the same)

I usually just switch subject or walk away and it goes away until after the next time we fuck.

She is also bitching to her friends over text that there’s a guy that doesn’t pay for anything and never bought a meal blah blah

This has being going on for the last 2 weeks

This girl wants to eat out every time I see her. She has rich parents and she makes really good money so she can afford it. I can’t. so I come along for the free wine and dine and she pays and then we fuck hard.

That is the arrangement we have and it’s been going good until really really recently when she went to a few of her friends weddings in a short amount of time and watching loser BB getting secured for life by her friends and the whole stupid marriage fantasy.

I don’t want to pay for even one meal. And I don’t want to split 30 bucks on dinner when I can cook some eggs at home and save my money.

But on the other side this girl probably spent 1000 dollars on me on food alone and probably feels used.

How to handle? I feel like if pay for one meal next time to show her some comfort she will expect every meal to be paid or at least split, so not doing that at all.