I posted back here 6 months ago. I broke up with a long term relationship of nearly 10 years. This forum really helped me move on but it’s been hard to find any decent women.

I’ve been using the dating apps. Mostly it’s not been great. So many dates were boring or single mothers etc. so I’ve been trying to text and learn more before going on dates so not to waste my time.

I got a really good match. She messages me first. I got her number the same day. We continue to text through the week.She is very feminine. She has been very flirty, funny, quick replies etc.

For example one thing she said “you are a handful, but believe me when I say, I will have you wrapped around my finger, I know how to deal with boys like you”.

She sent a few pictures of her self too.

I was going to ask her out. I text her the next day asking how she was. She said she unwell. Has Covid. I told her to get well soon. I text her again 3 days later. Checking how she is. Again she says she very unwell. Can’t sleep or eat. I tell her maybe seek medical advice, and hope she gets better soon. She doesn’t reply but send a thumbs up.

Hopefully this isn’t a sign of disinterest. But he replies were fast as always

I want to ask her out. But is it inappropriate to ask her now. I know from past mistakes, if you leave it too long girls lose interest.

But would it be okay just to ask her out and let’s set a date for in about 1 week? This gives her time to rest and also time to cancel if not improvement on health?

Or should I just wait and risk her thinking I’m not interested. Which has happened in the last with girls I’ve liked.

I know I maybe too involved with this girl. But it’s the first girl after my break up. I genuinely want to meet.