I'm genuinely content, easy going, almost a do gooder. I find life incredibly fascinating, yet when it came to women, I started off well - being myself- then the minute it became sexual, I'd become a simp making me depressed, mainly due to allowing my self to be walked over, utterly soul destroying.

People pleasing is another very hard habit to break. Yet it needs to stop for you to get anywhere (or even just mentally happy) in life. You'll unfortunately lose some relationships, the minute you even go from BB to BB lite ; don't fight it and fuck em anyway, if you're so easily disregarded they were never really friends in the first place. The people who liked you, will now love you. You'll attract better, positive people in to your life as well, so many more door opens than close behind you.

If you're a sensitive guy you don't even need to change that much either, but you must stand up for yourself be it with your quick wit, mockery or balls , but the minute you start doing this everything starts to fall in to place, really and about humans in general.