With many different women over my time, we had spent time together, and then suddenly stopped talking after a period of time, we shared experiences or FWB or even just small connections.
I came to realization, most of my girls, not all. Have tried to contact me again ranging from months- to a whole year.
Why is this? Some girls return, and some dont? But once they do, I dont have that connection like i previously had with them, and just remain neutral
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 10mo ago
This isn't true. Maybe yours contacted you this is not a surefire occurrence. And it matters what your relationship to them was and how intense their emotions were towards you.
There are too many factors at play here. The answer is no. Not always
If they do: boredom, validation, solipsism. It doesn't really matter. They're in the past for a reason. It doesn't matter
BDATA 10mo ago
Most girls don't return in my opinion. Only a few return. The reason I think so is most girls love themselves more than they love their partner. In my opinion, it doesn't matter if women return or not because if it matters to you, that means they've occupied your mind. Generally speaking, men are not supposed to love one woman. Men who have concubines don't care if he lost one from his harem. In this case, the girl return back. We all know that females are hypergamous which means they branch swing from one man to another. This is a reality. How can men stay more powerful in that scenario? Getting another women takes time. Getting a slut takes money but if you have a harem, it wouldn't really affect you and in that case, may be the girl will come back thinking you have a better life than she does or she thinks her going somewhere else can't influence you and she has no influence over you. This is my theory.
Build a harem. Be straight forward during the start of a relationship. In fact, I've dated one girl and I've dated multiple girls. I was so much happier when I was with multiple girls. That being said, as a Christian, I'd love to stay with a single girl if that single girl could love according my desired but we have learned from the sidebar that its impossible. So that's risky for us. This is basically risk management.