HA HA HA!!! I know a beta, short, little simp that got laid by a hot girl. That means ALL OF YOU ARE WRONG HA HA HA!

I am paraphrasing a post from the old AskTRP back in Reedit's heyday. Men really do think more logically and less emotionally. So that means some men take it to the extreme and have this formulaic "2+2=4" mentality and any variable to that means the basic equation must be wrong. You are dealing with vast variables that are in women such as "feels are reals," vag tingles, her level of self esteem at that moment, the situation she is in at that moment, how lonely she feels at that moment, where she is in her life experiences and age group, ASD, LMR...and the list goes on and on. Now add to that just sheer luck that you are beta Bob and you just catch her at that right moment. Plus don't you think that beta Bob keeps swinging for the fences that he doesn't get at least one home run? Haven't you heard the saying every dog has his day? I think of baseball metaphors when I think of Chad or Alphas or whatever vs. betas or the rest of the 80% I think Chad is more athletically inclined to make home runs (i.e looks, muscles, height, personality) but that doesnt mean that Bob can not connect with that ball, even once.

The reason why i get somewhat triggered when I see comparisons like this is because I was military for a very long time and I kept seeing that because of that ONE exception, we should just throw out the entire rule book. Specifically women in combat. Every time they wanted to open up the ranks to women, they somehow always found that one dyke that was one chromosome away from being a man and that can bench press a Volkswagen and yell "SEE! SEE! women can do it too!"

You are dealing with vast variables that are in women such as "feels are reals," vag tingles, her level of self esteem at that moment, the situation she is in at that moment, how lonely she feels at that moment, where she is in her life experiences and age group, ASD, LMR...and the list goes on and on.

Just a side note on friendzoned guys. The quote above is why I always found them creepy and think of them as predators. They are literally stalking prey waiting for that one opportune moment when her guard is down and she is the right amount of all of the above and he will finally get what he has been lusting after.

In general, yes, but women use sex for other reasons than self pleasure.

Is casual sex always with Chads/Alphas

No.

The more alpha the more likely to be okay with casual. But, no. Stop black and white overthinking

A) "alpha" and "beta" men aren't a real thing. Those terms are only really useful as traits/behaviors, with "alpha" being traits and behaviors that get her aroused (pussy wet) and associated with her dopamine response, and "beta" being traits/behaviors that build comfort and align with her oxytocin response. Beta/comfort must be earned by the woman, and too much too soon (especially unearned) will actually put them off. Even in a marriage (19 years here) that shit isn't freely doled out unless you want to dry her up. You aren't ready for this yet, so just don't even worry about it much. Back of the mind for now.

B) what you, another man, thinks about some dude doesn't fucking matter. What matters is what she thinks feeeeeeeeeels. If she's attracted to him, then she's attracted to him. She sees something you don't.

C) Christ, whats with the nitty-gritty on his height? It doesn't matter that much. Heights not the only factor in determining if a woman will be attracted, by far. Yeah, it matters. But it's not the end-all, be-all you're making it out to be.

So, my question is, do girls ‘casually’ fuck safe guys, as some kind of distraction?

Sometimes.

There's a book by evolutionary psychologists Dr. David Buss and Dr. Cindy Meston titled "Why Women Have Sex". Give it a read sometime. This might surprise you, but women are different from men, and their motivations are different. "I was horny and he was attractive" is waaay down the list, behind reasons such as resource acquisition, revenge, etc.

I see what you're doing here and you need to stop it. Are you going to spend the rest of your days living through other people?

You're making assumptions instead of of gathering facts and none of this is doing anything to further your own progress. Stay in your lane homeboy..

Women aren't men, they don't think like us. You're assuming that women's attraction is based on physical looks, when that a small portion of it. You don't know what this girl likes about this guy and you didn't ask. Attraction is subjective and complex.

This is why a 1 to 10 scale is retarded. Your 10 might be my 6. At any rate, you judging a guy based on his looks is a weak stance. You might look down on him for his height or looks, but guess what? He is getting laid.

Get this alpha and beta shit out of your head. It will lead you in to autism or the black pill. Maybe both?

So what are you doing to improve your life and how many plates are you spinning right now?