I've been dating this chick for around a year and some change, we were friends at first. No point in going into major detail, but she's generally submissive, cook and cleaning type, sex whenever I want and she wants it all the time, blah blah. But I found her looking at porn of men showing off and stroking their dicks and shit. I haven't said anything and I don't invest myself emotionally in this relationship at all, so I can keep a poker face and just enjoy the time, food and sex. But part of me wants to rid myself of her, just because I don't like when women do things like that and LIE about it. if she was honest from the jump, I wouldn't have cared not gonna lie. but she acts like she doesn't do these things (I dont ask, she'll just tell me how she avoids porn etc, without me asking at all). I don't like feeling like people have the chance to get over and me and she doesn't know I've been looking at her stuff for a while now. yall will call bs on me being invested just because I snoop through her phone, but its the truth. I just like to know who im dealing with entirely.
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Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
A) is there a question? This looks like you're just venting your emotions or some shit.
B) only you can decide if this is worth ending it over.
notdoingcoke 1y ago
true. I guess I kinda am venting, but I wanted to get a different perspective. I think it's disappointing, but im not heartbroken or anything. I kinda accept that no matter who im with there's gonna be some bs to it, so I may as well enjoy the music while its still playing
redhawkes 2 1y ago
Lmaoo, if that's a deal breaker for you, demote. Maybe work on your dick game and read on SGM. The difference between gf material and a hoe is that when you're not around, the first one stays at home and masturbates when horny and the second one goes out to sample dicks.
notdoingcoke 1y ago
sex is fine, she cums from hands dick and oral. I dont think that has anything to do with it, but she is hyper sexual from childhood sexual trauma. I dont watch porn because it was taking my life over personally, but if I did I wouldn't go out my way to lie about it unprovoked, just kinda weird to me
MyBoyJob 1y ago
Psychoanalyzing women is generally a waste of time, if you’re getting results who cares, if you want to know more just confront her about it and gauge her response.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
watch what they do.
compare it to what they say.
compare the difference.
the bigger the difference, the greater you should keep your distance
Devember 1y ago
This is probaly masterkey that fits all locks
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
People find other people attractive. So is life. It doesn't mean anything about you or the quality of your relationship.
As @redhawkes said, she's not going out and sampling dicks. What she doing is very normal.
Now, you can be insecure and dump her, but guess what? Every girl after her will also be interested in other guys. These are fantasies. You cannot control or stop her thoughts. She's hard wired for hypergamy.
The quickest way to turn an otherwise quality woman into a liar is to punish her for doing things honestly and up front.
notdoingcoke 1y ago
which is why I said, if she wasn't lying for no reason about It I wouldn't care, truthfully. I was hurt before, dont really care much or hold faith in women. I just dont see the reason to lie
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
If you go looking for problems, you're guaranteed to find them.
Do you believe in privacy? Do you show her the porn you jerk off to? You saw behind the curtain. It's the truth, but not unusual for any woman.
Can you handle the truth? If you can't, why are you snooping?
notdoingcoke 1y ago
she knows of the porn I used to watch, I stopped just because it was taking control of my life. Im really an open book, just kind of annoying being lied to. its not that serious, but if she was straight up I wouldn't care
Musicgoon78 3 1y ago
What do you want with this post? Is it just to vent? I'm trying to figure bout what this forums role is supposed to be..
First-light 2 1y ago
It sounds like she has a high sex drive.
Most men lie about if, when and how much porn they watch. It doesn't stop you being faithful if you want to be.
The question here though is one of will her high sex drive lead to infidelity. The problem is that men are loyal to women if they decide to be. Women only really ever are loyal to themselves. if their interests align with a man, if he has enough status and resources and sex is enough to meet a minimum requirement, they are likely to be faithful in a LTR. The high sex drive makes her more of a risk here but it may be a blessing to you if the relationship progresses.
Most of men wish their women were a bit keener on it than they are. So it depends really where it leaves you personally.
MrSupreme 1y ago
What do you wanna do mate. Sounds like you answered your own question,don't get emotionally invested, enjoy the sex ,the submission and hope she's not gonna go hunting for a 9inch cock like she saw in the movies
. Some chicks are like that,she loves sex and cooking and cleaning and taking care of her man,but her fantasy is to get gang banged by a crowd of cocks(maybe with permission of her soon-to-be cuckold man).Some other woman's fantasy is to get raped, others want a threesome with another girl,others wanna be tied up and abused.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Plate's gonna do what a plate's gonna do. If it turns her on, more pussy for you.