Gone for a while. Need to get back into things. Dating women without trp is like driving blindLike anything you need to do it regularly to stay sharp. Started seeing this girl and was just nice to date a younger girl who takes care of herself.
She has some feminine traits such as cooking for me and planning a birthday party for me without asking and not knowing me for long
But some red flags imo anyway. So just kept her on the back-burner and this is just to remind myself to keep reading and not get swept up in stuff
Very masculine at times and immature. Always wants to do what she wants to do or eat and anything is a problem. Forgot that this pattern needs to be nipped in the bud quickly. E.g. got some wine and brownies and she complained multiple times about the other options
Her friend is lith and very verbal abusive to her bf
Tattoos
Male friends which I'm not comfortable with and never woll be (, dropped plates and ltr demotions for this) not just this but lying about stuff ( male friend she met on tinder in Spain they did nothing and smoked weed before we met and he's way older and unattractive so nothing would happen) double booked and cancelled our plans which were just hanging out and this is what got her demoted
Very overly friendly. I know you want your ltr to be friendly but naive. Somehow wants to be friendly to random men without strings. Gets into situations by exploiting this. Very welcoming though but was overly welcoming with a friend third wheeling at a rave ( was going anyway and she came along) he said to me he felt uncomfortable she was flirty (,she wasn't but I can see how he perceived that way)
Bad relationship with dad and mom even brother
Only been jn 1 relationship which we know what that means and I'm nto the type to ask BC will just evaluate
Phone was always down around me which I find suspicious
Not posting for advice per se ( it's welcome) just writing it down in a public forum holds me accountable and is the easiest way to remember
She's on the back-burner whilst I date others now anyway just getting awkward when she's mentioning trips away and I don't want to do that with someone who isn't my LTR etc
Don't want to get swept up in the moment
First-light 2 1y ago
"Bad relationship with dad and mom even brother" of all this is the biggest red flag. She can't do LTRS.
lambOfGod 1y ago
Right now, Eastern European girls are one of the most feminist women in the European Union. Covert feminists, but ruthless self interested, gold digging chicks.
Eastern Europe was pedestalized by small dick passport bros autists that could not pull in their home country, and they thought that going there with american money would cure tradwife fantasy away.
Many forget that feminism started in Eastern Europe. The terrorist type feminism, not the 4th or 5th wave.
Baltics and Romania are the most feminist countries in Eastern/Central EU.
EE women are like the black ghetto chicks of the whites, minus the physical aspect
ExConvictNowMillionaire 1y ago
This.. Most Western guys have no idea how to manage Eastern European women.
They might seem or even be traditional - but only as long as you provide. Women in Eastern Europe get spoiled with gifts. I've had exes who got brand new iPhones, purses, bracelets, etc from dude's they either rejected, never even dated and/or exes. Competition is incredibly high in that part of the world.
Devember 1y ago
Many have also fantasy to ride non white cock carousel - see story of Simon Mol
lambOfGod 1y ago
Yeah, most gen Z girls from EE, because they are heavy liberal and progressive are on the black cock carousel. This is taboo in Poland, Romania and EE. But, if you wonder around that party social circles of the 20s people, you´ll see the sluts being down for blacks. But these are also the sluttiest hoes usually.
lambOfGod 1y ago
Also, this is what these EE women do man. They bait you to make an ATM out of you, they apply male strategies to the game. Like bringing up going to trips and shit, like a typical russian yacht hoe.
They literally cannot live without making the men there their slaves. It's in their DNA. This is why most men in EE/Central EU countries look like Auschwitz survivors.
If you see shit men in an area/country, be sure that the women are worse than them. Harpies in EE are on another level
redhawkes 2 1y ago
This is a basic hoe. Doesn't have anything to do with demography. Plate until it breaks and stop pedestalizing EE whores.
MrSupreme 1y ago
Get the best of her,start fucking her more frequently, don't do romantic stuff, spend less time when not fucking her,use her up and if she wants to stay well good for you,if she leaves then good riddance,keep your frame intact and look for other women in the meantime