I am generalizing somewhat, so please bear that in mind when I make my comments.

I live in western Europe and have an academic profession and work in a senior management position. There are almost no attractive women in my social environment. The women are all feminists, but they only want the things that are positive for them. Shared bills? No thanks. Of course the man has to pay. The same man who is an asshole when he says openly and neutrally that she has gained weight. He has to take her as she is, otherwise he doesn't love her and she deserves better. Other women who dress feminine? All cheap sluts. Women who remain housewives? Stupid.

It seems to me that I have to choose between a higher level of education but picky feminist or a lower level of education, but then maybe feminine. Whereby women with a low level of education by my observation want to take the easy way, often have no goals in life and find it difficult to postpone their needs.

Am I in a feminist bubble or do others share my observation? If I am in a bubble, where can I find educated feminine women? If my observation is correct, how should I best deal with it?