There’s a cute cashier at the smoothie shop at the mall I work at, i see her almost every day since i always get a smoothie on my break. The staff there kinda knows me, they wave at me and are friendly so I’m a familiar face there
I haven’t really had the chance to make conversation with her since it’s really busy but there was kind of a moment where she tried handing me the receipt even though I never take it and we both laughed.
I also noticed her looking over at me from where she’s working while I wait. Not sure if any of this means anything but what I learned from here is to escalate and find out. I want her so bad cause I haven’t fapped in a week and I’m about to make a move.
I was thinking of leaving a note with my # to make a no pressure scenario since I know she probably gets hit on 10000 times a day. But I wanted to hear what you guys think is the best way to do it, if i should do it at all
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4w ago
Dude you are spinning your gears post after post. Do you actually learn anything from one approach to another?
Just approach to them. And learn what went wrong
"Guys should i xyz"
Yes just fucking do it dude. Unless we are in the field with you it is going to be impossible to understand what you're stuck on. You need to understand what you're doing wrong or stay permanently inexperienced dude
Edit: and before you say i didn't read your post or answer your question it doesn't matter. You are dependent on us like a baby dependent on a test for nourishment. Come on dude. You need to think for yourself. Every post you make is predictably having no clue what you're doing
joyboy 4w ago
Thanks dude yeah I should just start making moves. Maybe I’ll record the approach so I have a record and post it here. I’ll do it soon
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4w ago
You need to. You are mentally masturbating till your proverbial dick falls off here. How the fuck are we going to help you if you are not evolving in the skills and lessons learned department.
Do not do the same thing every time. Learn what women reacted well to and what they didn't react well to and learn from it. Like seriously think about what what wrong
I also keep telling you to make female friends. If you can't even accomplish that you'll never get laid
Musicgoon78 1 4w ago
Bro it's time to take off the training wheels. I'm going to repeat what I've been repeating for ages. One of the biggest and most powerful skills you can develop is decisiveness. It separates the sexy Don Juan's from the incels. It feeds success and actually causes success. This is one of the biggest obstacles you can face when trying to attract women. Deferring to a woman is a hideous trait that will make women despise you.
You need to make your own decisions and then take action. The vast majority of the time, results will be good, when they aren't, you will learn something.
Work on implementing this into your frame and overall personality.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4w ago
So many AskTRPs are dudes not even taking action
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 4w ago
With my 100% surefire method.
RedDeangelo 4w ago
Whats so hard, about saying "hey what time do you get off, lets go for an ice cream"
meet her when she finishes, have a walk, tell her this was fun, we should do it again, take her number"
Now obviously you need to have built rapport before doing this.
joyboy 4w ago
I haven’t had the chance to make convo since it’s pretty busy usually but the staff knows me as a regular Yeah I was thinking about saying something along the lines of “hey I was gonna get food after, wanna come with” (I get off late and I think she does too) and then handing her a note with my # saying text me when you get off. I think that’s the way I’ll approach
RedDeangelo 4w ago
Dont write a note, you dont need her phone number, just set up a time to meet, if she's interested she'll follow through.
joyboy 4w ago
Yeah I think I’ll just try going for the meet right after work the same day. If she doesn’t agree without offering some other day she’d be free I’ll just move on
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4w ago
This is such a horrible and socially uncalibrated idea. There is no faster way to dry panties trading the number than basically saying "i already invested in this so hard that i wrote my number down in advance for you"
What the fuck
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 4w ago
Yeah! Everyone knows that when you hand a chick a note, it needs to say:
Vermillion-Rx Admin 4w ago
I forgot about this. This is the one exception to the rule
I stopped using that note, it was overpowered