What I should be telling her?

"You're lucky to have me"

Her: "Give me a compliment."
Me: At least you're not fat and crazy.

Doesn't sound too hard. What's the problem?

First of all:

but there is nothing really worth complimenting and telling sweet words about her.

Why the fuck did you LTR her then? Scarcity? This is your own fault before I can even give you any advice

but there is nothing really worth complimenting and telling sweet words about her.

like that she is sane and is not fat

Obviously she is not HB10, so 8f you are lost for words in this Dept, you can just say

• you are so average, I love you
• I like about you you dont have mental problems
• I like about you you dont have debt
• the best I like about you are the boots I got for you
• I like how you are inside, it makes me cum

Don't lie,you gotta like something about her if you're with her like her eyes or her ass. Tell you like how traditional and laid back she is. Maybe she's getting bored of getting the same 2 tricks from you, show something more.

You sir are an idiot. Girls shit test you, not the other way around. That's not a tool for seduction. I don't know where you got that idea from.

So basically you LTR'd a girl that will put up with an endless barrage of your bullshit.

You obviously didn't even think before you got involved with a woman that you don't find attractive. Reading this dog-shit post shows me that you have a very unattractive and uncreative personality.

What you should be telling this woman is that "this isn't going to work out". Let her go find someone that actually wants her.

You need to take time to work on yourself. Read the sidebar and ask us questions if you don't understand. It will save you from looking dumb like you do right now.

And for God's sake, get some abundance! It's not fair to you or this girl to settle.

Negging is for stuck up women. It's something you would almost never use aside from a cold approach to a woman at a bar with her bitch-shield up. Also you don't shit test women, you give them compliance tests and this is only to establish frame.

Anyway, your woman is giving you comfort tests. I don't know where it is in the side-bar since I figured it out on my own but it's probably there somewhere. A comfort test is passed by providing one of the following beta traits: protection, provisioning, and parental investment. I usually just sleep naked with my wife once a month and snuggle her and that does the job. Once in a great while we have some upset in our lives and I have to sit down and explain how we're going to get through it.