One girl I am with has being acting differently so I decided to soft next. She has done this before and a soft next worked with her.
However, a Christmas-like holiday is coming up in my country, where people are supposed to text and greet each other. Should I break the no-contact and greet her or just ignore it?
If the answer is no, what should I say if she texted me and asked how come I didn't greet her?
Musicgoon78 2 10mo ago
Let her reach out to you, not the other way around.
You don't have to answer questions if you don't want to.
direct99 10mo ago
How can I just ignore her question?
wswZtyqNGQ 10mo ago
Because you have balls. Next question!
direct99 10mo ago
What I mean is what reply should I give? Do I just read the message and not say anything?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 10mo ago
Stop overthinking.
Fuck other girls too you’re developing oneitis.
direct99 10mo ago
I don't think it is overthinking because it has happened to me before where they ask where have I being after a no contact period.
wswZtyqNGQ 10mo ago
Vermillion-Rx Admin 10mo ago
No
direct99 10mo ago
What answer should I give?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 10mo ago
And she can't, why?
Also ffs say what she did next time
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 10mo ago
Her: wtf direct99 why didn’t you wish me a happy holiday?
You: what are you doing tn? Let’s grab a drink about it ;)
pofkaf 10mo ago
No. Do not initiate a text. A soft next is a soft next. It doesn't matter what the social norm is.
If she reaches out first, then sure, return a simple "Happy holiday" and keep it at that until she goes further.