How do you schedule dates far out. Went on date with a girl and kiss closed. Didn't message her after for a few days.
She texts me "Are you free next week?" (it's currently Wednesday/Thursday). How do you respond to a text like this when it's so far out. Ideally I'd like to do anytime from Thursday-Sunday as logistics are better for a f close. for me. Also, balancing so you don't ask too last minute.
Do you just respond "I'll check my schedule on Monday and let you know". I think it's a mistake to just reply "yes I'm free next week" as it makes you look like you aren't doing anything.
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mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
You really don't want to schedule dates a long way out, especially without a gap.
The power dynamic is wrong...... girl gets secure, bored, then changes her mind.
Delay a day..... then.... "I'm busy for a few days, I'll hit you up"..... then hit her up closer to the time.
Musicgoon78 1 1mo ago
You are really overthinking this to an autistic degree. This isn't a problem. But I can see how you want it to be one.
Here's what you do: if you want to date her set something up and just respond like a normal human being. If you want to overthink this and fuck it up you're free to do that as well.
financehardo420 1mo ago
You should be asking yourself why she isn’t trying to see you this weekend.
Don’t reply until next Wednesday and say something amongst the lines of “hey sorry had to put out some shitstorms at work; I’m down to grab a quick drink either thurs around 8 or sat after 2”
pofkaf 1mo ago
Just say "Yes, let's do X on Y day."
It's that simple. And it's okay to text her occasionally throughout the week to just keep it floating.