Hey all
Winter is very close now, and I'm slowly losing all my plates, 4-5 of them, drier replies, less communicating with each other. I was like a mad-man in summer seeing multiple girls, going out a lot, socializing.
I've felt like I've changed somehow, I'm just not interested in seeing or chatting to many girls currently. I feel like my energy vibe has dropped and people/girls can sense it.
I feel abit alone and bored. I'm working, studying and training.
What is going on, how can I add something to look forward to in my life? Thanks
whytehorse2021 1y ago
We see this from time to time. Women are a hive mind. Check their instagram for what's on their minds.
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
this is a low effort post.
You seem to want someone else to sort out your problems, someone to give you the magic pill that is going to make your life meaningful, get you plates.
that is female brain thinking.
Go back to yourself, and start asking the important questions.
spartanblood1 1y ago
your right, great reality check i needed
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
good for you for owning it.
that's step 1
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I dunno man might be something in the air; one of my plates moved to California and I’m coming home for a week (I’m from cali). I message her on snap saying I’m home for a week; let’s party and she DELETED ME ON SNAP. Still follows me on ig but idek shit is whack dawg. Pretty sure she’s dating some ugly ass ginger kid now lol
That being said you’re supposed to maintain your plates ie see them each once/week. if you fell off the face of the earth and randomly start hitting them up again it’s not that surprising to have this result. additionally… plates break - they could be getting “serious” w some other dude or whatever.
Solution: start going out again. Doesn’t mean you have to do it every single night; or get absolutely blacked the fuck out every time/stay up really late… balance is key here. Once a week to go out and meet women is pretty normal and healthy; I save it for my cheat day (Saturday’s) personally. Rest of the week is grind szn and smashing plates
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spartanblood1 1y ago
The plates I have are certainly not dating material, and maybe that's what lets me down. They are fun and nice but I can NEVER date them, harsh reality
NeoSpartan 1y ago
I had a very similar thing happen like 6 months ago. For me, I realized it was because I didn't have a goal I was working towards. Instead I was just kinda going through the motions, bored and in a sort of catatonic mindset. Life wasn't bad, I was sorta bored with it and it fucked with my mood and motivation a lot.
I think you need a goal man. Worked for me. I'm much higher energy now and I feel like I'm building towards something and have new challenges to overcome and shit.
Figure out a what you want to achieve in life most right now and start towards it.
Also, sounds like one of the things you might wanna do is work on finding better girls if you are seeing 5 and wouldn't want to date any of them. Also 5 seems like a lot of work. I only ever did 3 and I still kinda was mixing them up in my head a bunch. Plus the maintenance.. way too lazy to keep that up for very long personally.
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
you need some adventure in your life. i suggest sending all your money to me and then surviving in the streets for a whole month