Long story short girl I met and failed with a couple months recently popped back into my life.

We initially met and after she reached out to my first without me giving even her my contact info she found it.

I fumbled or wasnt her top option or who knows. But she basically would text but kind of ignore date requests. So I obviously stopped giving her attention.

Anyways saw her at a bar recently and she was receptive pretty sure I could have got with her but bar closed and my ride was leaving.

Since then I gained 10lbs of muscle and got a new nice job.

Options Keep Ignoring and give it up forever. Invite straight over (poor logistics). Invite to event im going to but its far out. Or I guess invite to something else but closer.

Also general question. Is it better to wait for an event to be closer 3-4 days out to ask or girl out or strike while the irons hot? The attention spans on these girls seems to be short bc of sm.