Ex ltr, left because I didn't say sorry for wanting to drink at a bar by myself, she was already a bit dreaded because she wasnt acting how i want my girl to act and I understand that part for why she opted out. I was left so she can pursue someone more beta. She never mentioned any exes like she does me.
Got her still on tiktok. She started a new job somewhere I frequent for food and supplies.
Didn't think she'd post a reel about how I fucked her whole day up. Apparently, she's still familiar with the scent of my cologne.
Figured at this point post break up ~8 months she wouldn't even act like this about me, posting about me on socials because I went and got coffee at the coffee hut at her job.
For one thing, I didn't even notice her. I want to understand her reaction here. I don't want a relationship with her. I'm morbidly curious and yeah if she presented her self i would plate her.
Musicgoon78 2 11mo ago
You're a guy deeply into this girls frame instead of your own. It's kinda sad.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 12mo ago
I didn't read your post, just the title.
She's your ex.
Why the fuck do you care about her "emotional turmoil"? She's not your problem. Let her rot.
Lone_Ranger 2 12mo ago
it would help if you stated age. Because at a young age, people break up all the time over trivial stuff.
My advice would be to ditch the socials and live more IRL.
whytehorse2021 12mo ago
She's playing the victim. Having a pity party. Remember, she dumped you over something trivial. I'm thinking you dodged a major bullet here.
DragonNuts 12mo ago
Yeah I think that as well however I made imperfect choices. I'm not completely innocent of not taking small shits where i shouldnt shit. I don't have women stick to me for more than 6 months, it's always been this way. They do always end up having some neurotic episodes over me, though.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 12mo ago
Who cares.
Do you stare at the landfill months after the garbage man took the trash away from your home?
Let her be miserable. She dumped you. She has 8 unsuccessful months on the cock carousel and knows she fucked up but also is still holding out for her unicorn. It's cake and eat it too stupidity. None of your concern stop overthinking it
Edit: the very fact this is of concern to you is still ego-investment or at best an indirect pedestal
Edit 2:
Fuck no. Have some self respect and also stop going to her coffee shop. You clearly haven't moved on
DragonNuts 12mo ago
The ideal thing here is just removing her from tiktok which I did. I don't unattend my routine locations over woman. She'll be quitting in no time.
The coffee shop is located in a supermarket btw.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 12mo ago
You misunderstad this. By putting emotional stock into not interrupting your routine, at the expense of having to see your ex their, you are actually not looking out for yourself, and causing needless drama
You are making your day worse for alpha points, AND she works there, she has a more prioritive reason to be there, you are just muh alpha'ing it at everyone's expense.
This is actually beta, contrary to what you think. Doing this as some form of independence and dominance is less satisfying than finding a place free of this toxic cloud.
What self respecting man purposely goes where his ex is as a power play. Go find somewhere with a clean atmosphere, this is kind of gay
DragonNuts 12mo ago
I don't care if I happen to see her.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 12mo ago
Then why post about it
ObliviousDuck 12mo ago
Why are you going through your old trash?
DragonNuts 12mo ago
The trash made a weird sound.
Lone_Ranger 2 12mo ago
FFS - what are you doing stalking her on SM?
Get busy with your life dude.
This sounds like oneitis
DragonNuts 12mo ago
Working on my Joe Goldberg game.
Fr I stumbled across it. I dont unadd women from things, thats too butthurt.
Whatsnext 12mo ago
I think they want attention in the form of sympathy when they do this. I had one ex who posted about how much of a dog I was on twitter for years after our breakup and how her new boyfriend is superior to me. I messed up and messaged her asking her to stop dragging me when I should've just ignored her because she got what she wanted (my attention)
DragonNuts 12mo ago
True it's always for attention. In this case she didn't drag my name through the mud, just spouted off about how she did her best to hide, needed a smoke after, etc. Whatever.