Here we go... It's a pattern huh?
Yesterday I meet at my usual café this super hot, submissive and soft spoken vixen. She's been eyeing me from the corner of her eye and I move over to sit next to her and start chatting her up.
She's studying with her ugly friend. She's an econometrics masters student and her ugly friend a civil engineering student.
Knowing how ugly friends can be extreme vindictive cockblocks, I open them simultaneously, starting with the ugly friend. (who thinks at first that I was chatting her up). Then steer the conversation towards my target.
Minutes later, I am sitting side by side of my target, she's giggling and opening up and overall good sexy vibe.
She takes my phone, puts in her number herself, calls it so that I have it saved up. We say bye and I return to my table with my friends.
I know the fugly is mad and jealous, so just in case, I soften her up by giving her attention, talking to her and just trying to put her at ease too.
I think I got it under control right? lolz
30 mins later, the girls leave. My target brushes off next to me, and every so gently whispers while brushing off my arm "let's catch up later".
hmmm, I got this bird.
It's my time to leave too, I hit up a nearby bar with my group of friends and at around 1am I send her a short text, expecting a response in the morning.
Morning comes, noon comes, no response. I'm disappointed. But hey, that's the game. So I prevent her from seeing my picture on whatsapp, NEXT.
Now it's late afternoon. I pass by my usual café, inquire about my friends. One of which has plans to meet with me there.
I stride up confidently, as usual, chat up the waiters, inquire about my friend, and scan the surroundings for the girl (just in case I have to ignore her).
One of the waiters tells me my friend is not here and that one of the owners said that he wouldn't allow me to sit at the café again. Mind you, this café should owe me shares based on just how much money and time our group spent there. In any case, I keep it cool and the barista who's on good terms with me steps out and explains to me what happened.
Apparently, my target girl's brother showed up and caused a scene saying that this guy (me) bothered his sister. Now mind you, my friends and the barrista where witnesses and said that the interaction went well and that hot girls don't usually tell their brothers about the guys that hit on them. Mind you also, I know everything about the girl, that she lives nearby, alone, and that she suggested that we make plans together and hang out in the evening.
So everyone's guess turned out to be . . . yup the UGLY FRIEND STRIKES AGAIN.
So apparently she likely went ahead and told the brother that I picked on his sister and now I get a perma-ban at my favorite coffee shop! lol
Doesn't matter really, this scenario happens often. Ugly friends are vindictive and have caused me trouble many times before (including at my previous gym and other favorite spots). They are matched in envy only by their male counter part, the beta White Knight.
I don't care about the coffee shop anyways, I was thinking of changing spots and this situation might be a gift from God.
Can I salvage the girl though?
I'm thinking of writing to her using my personal phone (she has my business phone only)
"hey, did your friend get jealous and told your brother about us?"
thoughts?
First-light 2mo ago
You don't know what happened there. Could have been anything, could be the friend, could be the girl bragging about her conquest or she was caught making plans.
On the plus side, it made an impact. You made an impact. She will not forget. Anything else may spin her hamster wheel up in another direction but if you see her again be sure to let her know you got into trouble over her and she was worth it. Tell her you will be more discrete, work out how to give her some small secret token of admiration or something. Women love the idea of forbidden romance and the closer they are guarded the weaker they are to it.
Lionsmane8 2mo ago
hmm, "Women love the idea of forbidden romance"
spoken like a true Don Juan.
"some small secret token of admiration" - what's that?
financehardo420 2mo ago
Agree but somewhat disagree
Lionsmane8 2mo ago
what do you mean? why?
financehardo420 2mo ago
The she was worth it part lmao
First-light 2mo ago
I think it gets them all excited that you made a sacrifice for their very company. They all want to imagine they are worth it. Its dangerous to let Western women think you believe this this -they have huge choice and if you appear to have oneitis and are not very high SMV, you will be abused. It helps to show some interest but also act like there is a huge surplus of them, so you try to make western women think they have to be on their best game to get you.
Women who are guarded are not quite the same as western women. They are not a surplus and they know it, that also means men are not a surplus as men who can be bothered to try for them are limited. This changes the dynamic a little. Someone who captures the imagination as keen but very heard to reach, could really spin the hamster wheel -at least that is my experience of these things. Its the same as the big Chad in the west who is unreachable because he has the attention of hot girls, except with the guarded woman, you can corner the market if you can capture their imagination. Just look at the crazy things they have been known to do when a guy gets "inside the wire" things like sleep with, elope with and marry practical strangers, sometimes even poor ones, when the consequences are serious to the girls but they do it anyway.
Of course it helps if she is not sure she has you -you might lose interest or someone else might get you but it also helps if she thinks you are really keen on her if you could only see her, as she will have to do getting to see you bit by feminine subterfuge, she has to be motivated.
It does not have to be anything much in the way of a token, so long as its a good gesture, like paying for her next coffee and saying its from her forbidden admirer or leaving a flower for her or something. You could also text her from another number some time alluding to the small gift as your number may have been blocked. You must have made an impact for the brother to get so fired up about it, so it must be worth following up.
Hens that are well guarded and submissive, are incredibly easy meat for the fox once he gets under the wire.
financehardo420 2mo ago
LOL. Bro ugly friends are the fuckin worst; tale as old as time. Last night a bird was about to pull up on me and her ugly friend pulls her back talking bout “no he’s 28” like stfu lmaooo
That’s crazy that you got the boot; my regular spot I get away w murder even fucked in the bathroom on more than one occasion lol.
whytehorse2021 2mo ago
I would just tell her what her brother did. This will follow with her brother telling her what ugly friend said to him. This will follow with her rebuking ugly friend.