I'm in France and we don't have the same hook up culture as USA or UK
Most girls here don't fuck outside of LTR
I have been in an LTR for 6 months with this girl, i was fucking multiple times everyday
one night she was walking in the street with her friends, and caught me with another girl, she got mad and it ended here
now im back on the market, but shit it takes so much efforts
online dating : lot of flakes, still get a date here and here, but it's crazy time consuming
clubbing : not consistent at all, it's very random, sometimes i will approach just 1 girl and take her to my place, sometimes i will approach 15 girls and get nothing
you have to spend money for dates, drink alcohol, go out late and get tired the day after etc
i went from fucking everyday in LTR to fucking like once a month now
dont get caught cheating i guess?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Bro France is known for the freaky anal sluts n shit. Ménage a trois.
Your game is prob just rusty or smv is lacking. There’s good nights n bad nights that’s all just part of the game brotha
pofkaf 1 1y ago
First of all, why are you fucking around while in an LTR? That defeats the purpose of an LTR. And if you don't want an LTR, man up and tell your girlfriend that.
Secondly, sounds like you lost a step. You need to up your game. There are many other ways to meet women besides OLD and clubs. Develop some social hobbies and just be a fun dude.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I don't mean any hate dude, but, how long you been posting newbie questions in AskTRP for?
It's time for you to re-evaluate which core parts of women you don't understand
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
where did you meet the girl you were in an LTR with?
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
So what happened to the girl you were caught with?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Asking the questions that need to be asked
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First-light 1 1y ago
Yeah, if the sex is good, cheating is not likely to be worth it. When things cool and the sex dries up, you may need a different strategy but till then, ride it till it breaks.
There are so many better things to do than chase women, it just makes you an unpaid entertainer. If looking for another LTR, don't look in clubs and such where you find cheap sluts who put out easily, the kind that are probably already ruined for LTR.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Cheating is always worth it that’s scarcity talking
First-light 1 1y ago
But a good LTR is a scarcity situation and trying to spin it otherwise is just red pill hamstering. A good LTR represents months or years of investment. You don't have another 6 months or 12 months or 5 years without waiting that long to build a new one. I can think of incidences in my life when cheating was worth it and others when it wasn't. One has to take things situationally.
Sometimes its worth it, sometimes not. Looking at a bad relationship from a scarcity angle is not healthy or rational. Looking at a short term relationship from a scarcity angle is also not rational. But a good LTR -how many people have that and how long does it take to replace it, to build that trust and that team with a woman? Still might be worth cheating in some cases but not always.
Blue pill men tend to overvalue women and their relationships -hell yeah but to say cheating is always worth it, places good relationships with women at an artificially low value.