Lately I've been running into and chatting up super pretty introverted girls.
They have really beautiful facial features always seem to be studying or working on interesting stuff and have a very quiet relaxing energy that really chills me out.
The thing though is that all they do is listen.
Like, I keep talking and they keep nodding their head, and I ask them about stuff, and they seem shy and taken aback. Just taking in what I say but not contributing.
Maybe I'm too high-energy for them, but we interact nicely and I can tell there is attraction and some sexual tension.. but I am used to more talkative girls that can hold a conversation.
They just listen!
It's like punching water.. and after a while I'm just tired of doing all the talking..
Anyways, not sure how to move things forward with these chicks. But I like the fact that they are responsive, more submissive, respond well to my orders/directives.. but, It's like punching water...
React bitch!!!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Have you tried making plans with them yet or are you just gaming them
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Right but some girls are like this man. You won't know unless you try to close. You're basically throwing away effort just because she's shy and protecting yourself from rejection
I try to close shy ones anyway, some are just very enthralled at listening and just enjoy being part of a conversation and will explode into talkativity if you strike a topic they really care about. But a lot of shy and reserved girls are shy and reserved. They enjoy your lead presence and when you make plans a lot will enthusiastically take them because they were just shy and reserved but interested
Now if they say no to your plans that's your answer
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Right, but while Women in of themselves aren't NAWALT, NAWALT does extend to personality and personal characteristics
I have the craziest fucking sex of my life with a woman who was not reciprocating any of my moves and i definitely remember some OG or just older posts back on ye reddit where the guy was absolutely convinced a chick was not reciprocating or interested and then fucked her very easily
The best test of determining interest with these kinds of women is yo try to make plans. There are genuinely some women who are so introverted they just won't reciprocate in the traditional expected manner. You cannot blame them for this or have expectations.
If they are NOT leaving your side and staying engaged, even if that engagement is just listening only, assume interest.
You can't assume disinterest unless they are disengaging in obvious ways. If you spend 5-10 minutes on a girl, just try to close. Why are you fucking yourself over. Closing take 5 seconds or less
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MrSupreme 1y ago
I once went out with this girl, seemed like she had no friends,I think she didn't.I did most of the talking, she giggled like a schoolgirl,asked a few questions but didn't seem too eager to talk about herself.love bombed me a bunch.We fucked for 3 months and then bada bing bada bang it ended.
With some girls there is just not much to talk about,keep it playful and don't take her too seriously although she is probably a serious girl
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Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
What are you complaining about? You can't expect women to be like men.
Quite honestly, the girls you mention just sound like shy girls. Nothing wrong with that, everything right with that. They just want you to be a man, so that they can be a woman.
Stop expecting women to 'match your energy'.
Escalate to next step.
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Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
Go for it.
Women are surprisingly boring. They are empty vessels. That is why they want a man to bring drama and entertainment and adventure.
Don't worry about a woman being shy. Lots of good women are shy. In fact, the one thing I cannot stand in a woman is if they are extrovert, boisterous and have a 'big personality'. Fuck no man.
Give me a shy girl any day of the week...and I will bring her out of her shell. Massage, nude photo shoots, lingerie... its like watching a flower bloom.
Its good for her, and its good for you.
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Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
You have to carry everything??
Welcome to being a man. Get used to it.
You carry everything, nobody helps you. Damn near everyone hates you. But... men generally have the last laugh.
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