So my question is what is a "nice guy"? How would someone know they are a " Nice guy"? What can someone do if they are one?
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Testme 2w ago
This post shows what is messed up in this forum with regards to voting.
I will make a post with some very complicated question and then six different people will give answers of varying qualities, mostly just attacking me as a "sperg" etc, and then down voting me. Meanwhile, this guy who has done zero research, never read the sidebar or anything else, comes here and asks an incredibly stupid question and everybody is like, "Oh fine" and he gets no down votes. We should just get rid of voting. It's pointless.
Maturin_nj 2w ago
A NG in RP parlance is an AFC. You never want to be this reject in the mating market. He is a creation of the system, clergy and is a walking embodiment of the BP.
Characteristics:
You never get your dick sucked. No chicks come within 200 ft of your dorm room. You are friends with attractive girls. They tell you about guys they date. You provide emotional support in hopes of dating her. The other guy always gets the girl. Other guys know you won't get the girl, and they won't hesitate to move in on her. You do favors for girls. You use terms like misogyny and believe women were oppressed in the past. You have no game or seduction skills. You like chick flicks and romantic comedies. You can't believe the chick you like fucked some dude she hardly knows. You think the guy who fucked her has illwill toward your object of desire. She sees you as a luke warm glass of milk. You are the equivalent to a table when women look at you. Women don't think you have a cock.
You're always the friend. Girls never come onto you. You never get with girls in you social circle yet you continue to show up and associate with them. You refuse to admit your futility. And think your doing OK. You've been taught that sex is secondary and girls have so much more to offer. You have been brainwashed by the system. Marriage is your primary objective. You'll have no problem marrying up a girl that slept around with everyone except you. You reject basic RP principles becuase you think them harsh. You don't or can't understand female nature. You reject female nature as false. You never get a girls phone number at a club. At clubs you hang out with your group and never attempt to pick up girls.
You allow a mother hen in your social circle to make all sorts of judgments including that you are a eunuch to them. You never change mating strategies. You persist in this notion ofbeings friends with women. You tell women your sorry a lot. You always attempt to qualify yourself to woman. You believe she is deserving if special treatment. When you finally get past the friend stage, which is rare, you become a kind of a butler yes man. You have something called date night. You put your relationship on FB. you have lots of girls who are friends onFB. You like to cuddle. You what reality TV with your girl You do whatever she says. You won't hesitate to drop 50k or more on a wedding enenthough you can't afford it. There's a high likelihood you'll be in a dead bedroom. Your chances if being turned into a plowhorse are very high yet you don't care so long as you are married. You engage a lot on FB. You allow women to disrespect you. You bring all of this upon yourself and have Noone to blame but You.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3w ago
Did you read the sidebar man?
whytehorse2021 3w ago
Obviously not or he would have read No More Mr Nice Guy.
Whatsnext 3w ago
Read No More Mr Nice Guy. But you probably wont because you want all the information downloaded into your brain in 10 seconds like a tiktok
Whatsnext 3w ago
Read the book and here is a few sentences on the lessons (if you were raised by a weak father, a single mom or even an overly dominant father you need to read the book. I read it after my divorce) Lesson 1: Stop being non-conflictual and speak up when something or someone bothers you. Lesson 2: You are your number one priority, so you’ll have to start limiting your availability to others. Lesson 3: Your dysfunctional relationships are your fault, so you’ll first have to change your mindset to fix them. FALSE NARRATIVES: If you’re nice to them, they will love you. If you meet their needs, they’ll do the same. Not upsetting them means your life will be problem-free.
Whatsnext 3w ago
Also a very good book that I believe has been on the ASKMRP sidebar is "When I say No I feel Guilty" It actively teaches you to have boundaries and gives you tactics and skills for how to enforce them even when others put pressure on you to dominate you.
mattyanon Admin 3w ago
nice guy as in genuinely nice......
or "nice guy" as in "not sexually attractive" ?