I always see a lot of post praising low body count women among spaces like these but is there any benefit to it specifically in LTRs. I would prefer if someone with more experience answered this.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 2w ago
YOUNG and low body count doesn't necessarily mean anything. An 18 year old virgin is oftentimes a slut that hasn't started slutting yet
I would honestly argue the amount of bodies a 25 yo has is more indicative of her reservations than a young 18 yo that hasn't shown if she's gonna hoe it out or not
Lone_Ranger 1 2w ago
It really depends on where you are in life - what age are you?
I was skeptical that low body count had much bearing until quite recent. I now realise that it probably does have a bearing.
I'm early 50s. I have plenty of experience. 2 marriages, some long term LTRs plus all kinds of other relationships, including a few affairs and ONS. Body count is about 80.
My review is that women with a high body count have the following issues
I left the most important one to last. My experience of high body count women is that they are NOT excited by LTRs. When they are in an LTR, they will go off sex very quickly, because it is newness and novelty that excites them. Society thinks of the 'pump and dump' as some sort of injustice that is done to women. I tell you now, with a straight face, that what most women want is the pump and dump. They want to be ill treated by a selfish and egotistical chad that does not care for them. That is what gives them excitement, tingles, drama.
Ask me how I know. I have found out to my own high cost.
This is the most profound reason why women are not suited for LTRs - nothing can change their preference. They cannot be converted.
I'm really an ex-chad. Let me be honest here, I'm not going to be modest. In the interests of honesty, I'll tell you my story.
I used to slay pussy. I was tall, ripped, successful, great game, self confident, good looking. It was so easy for me to pick up chicks. Other men used to ask me how I did it, for example, when on biz trips. They just couldn't get it - why was I able to talk to the girl at the reception for a few short minutes and then she was somehow coming to my hotel room that night, risking her job and marriage.
I can tell you why. Because I was a playa. I was an asshole that mistreated women, and there is nothing women want more than a playa that treats them like the dog shit that they are. That is what gets the panties moist. Women don't really have any self respect. The only way they can view themselves worthy is if chad wants to bang them. Then they figure, well, I must be a hot chick. Chad chatted me up, so I am a hot chick. He chose me.
This is the problem. Because eventually, you decide on one chick. And you settle down. And marry her. And now you are no long chad. You are a boring husband, and no woman wants to bang her husband. Husbands are not for sex. They are for finance, they are emotional tampons. They are carers who provide. They are enablers, that enable her to do what she really wants to do, which is to regress into a child like state, a literal teenager.
That is my review of women with high body count. You cannot change their taste. You can only provide tingles for them while you are hunter and they are prey. They cannot be domesticated.
SeasonedRP 2w ago
I'd add that I've met 2 with high body counts who have very high intelligence, too high to be good for them. They are still women for sure but think more rationally in some areas than regular women and don't realize high body count is a turn off.
Lone_Ranger 1 2w ago
I don't think high intelligence is a turn off in women. I have never met a woman that I thought was of higher intelligence than myself.
And I have never met a woman that wasn't keen to boast about her body count.
Intrepid_Place53900 1w ago
(and I never met a woman that wasn't keen to boast about her body count)
that right there means she isn't too bright.
Few women get the point, a woman adding numbers to her N count, is nothing. It's not an achievement, it's not something to be proud of. She was good enough for him to bust a nut in. Nothing more.
Whereas , a man who can add to their N count, actually Has something. She was attracted to him in some way to want him to F her, instead of the X amount of other guys there at that time, in her peripheral,etc.
80% of them don't get it, or they don't actually want to acknowledge it. Good enough to bust a nut in, should be on her t-shirt
Lone_Ranger 1 1w ago
The reason why women will always let you know that they have a high body count? Because they no sense of intrinsic worth (usually because they have no intrinsic worth). The only way they can feel valuable is through the lens of male attention. Women only value themselves by the number and quality of men that chase them.
It's quite sad when you think about it.
Durek_The_Bald 2w ago
It's more of an indication of something else, rather than a direct cause-effect kind of thing. Sort of like with tattoos: Tattoos don't cause trauma and mental health issues, but they tend to be indicative of it.
High "body count" in women is indicative of reproductive failure / lack of success with the opposite sex. Women are hypergamous, so largely seek to secure commitment from the highest calibre of man they can get.
Hence, high body count means they've gotten pumped and dumped a lot. So as a man, you gotta ask yourself why all these other men they've gone for sexually, don't want anything to do with them. Shit personality is often the reason, or lack of self-awareness into their own SMV - neither of which bode well for any serious involvement.
A good rule of thumb is that a woman's sexual history reflects "what she's for". A lot of pump and dump means pump and dump is what she's for. That's her role in the sexual market place; as a practice chick, side piece etc.
No-Stress-Cat 2w ago
Doesn't mean a thing. They're all whores.
mattyanon Admin 2w ago
Promiscuity reduces female pair bonding ability
Whatsnext 2w ago
Out of every girl i have smashed and dated. The one that was most feminine, least trauma, most bonded to me was the girl who was a virgin when we met. She also had a dad and mom together in the picture and used to be mormon. I messed around with another virgin and she was a whore though. It was weird to me. I think you have to stick to the principle that there are only red lights no green lights. So you cant say "Shes a virgin its a green light im good." You have to scan constantly for red lights "Oh she has no dad and is a staunch feminist and uses dating apps, red light, highly doubt id commit"
MeteOr20 2w ago
on top of other opinions, see points normally not mentioned.
the more she fucks the more likely and almost certain she lied to some dude and cheated on him, she gets conditioned to cheating like smoker gets conditioned to nicotine.
Testme 2w ago
Yes, body count is important. There is a huge difference between girls who have fucked 2, 12 or 50 guys.
When a girl has only know one or two guys, then if she meets a guy who is way better than the first two guys she has sex with then the guy is "special" and she can potentially form a powerful bond to him. When a girl has fucked 50 guys, none of them are special anymore. Not only that with high body counts, it almost always includes ripped chads, so the girl is always thinking about that ripped chad that fucked her 3 times 10 years ago. Trust me: you do not want that.
MrSupreme 2w ago
High n count give meaner blowjobs,they can suck it dry,every drop. Plus they're 37% easier/more receptive to game
financehardo420 2w ago
idk man.
is there a difference between a brand new car, a CPO with 1 previous owner and under 40k miles, vs a 100k+ mile car with 6 previous owners?
Intrepid_Place53900 1w ago
What you should ask, is what benefit to a LTR is a woman with a high body count.
a woman who's got 50 guys on her belt. What benefit do YOU have in being in a LTR with this woman?
Understanding the experiences she's had with the 50 guys, the drama, the trauma, resulting from it. What benefit does that provide you?
Why is she not with one of the other 50 guys?
whytehorse2021 1w ago
Research shows the higher n-count, the higher chance of divorce.