long story short i was asked to be the "the bull" of a cuckold couple, first he asked without she knowing and then he pushed me to start casual chatting with her, she at the very beginning showed IDIs, i made some movements and she asked me in front of her boyfriend if i would agree to fuck her, at some point it was "normal" but i know them for a long time because the cuck is one of my old friends
when she asked me to fuck her i could just meet right away and nail that girl while her bf watch us from the couch but i let them know that i'm too bussy with work right know (that's the truth i care more about money and my future than just get pussy and my career is slowing going up to success) the One thing i noticed is that she somewhat is like trying to build some emotional connection
I just want to understand the wires: she couldn't be looking at me as a provider prospect because i know her bf right now is winning more money than me(i will be winning more soon but they doesn't know) and i supose she should know that i will just fuck her and nothing more because i know that pushing my career a little more and taking care of my look i could get more casual pussy that i never had before, and i respect that cuck guy, he could be a cuck but it's a good guy. i just don't know why women has that need for emotional connection still being so far away from wifey material, like the more cheater she is the more they seek for EC
So it is a common pattern that all women wants to catch u you in some kind of "relationship"(no matter how slutty they Could be) Or what?
MrSupreme 3mo ago
You may be approaching it the wrong way. Even a casual ONS has emotional engagement,it's just a shallow "take me and leave me",but it's there. In the cuckolding scenario you can't just be indifferent alpha boy,you gotta be the strong gorilla that's gonna fuck her silly,like a barbarian fucking her while her man just watches in awe. There's an emotional connection,you may be referring to emotional detachment,and there's a place for it I'm sure,maybe after the whole scene is over.
MyBoyJob 3mo ago
For women there is no such thing as casual sex. Obviously they want to fuck the alphas, risking abandonment, but if they succeed, they will try to get attached very fast. This has happened every time I fucked a girl more than once.
No-Stress-Cat 3mo ago
Dude, just say no. There is nothing good that can come out of this situation, and at the end of the day both of them will end up blaming you for it.
First-light 3mo ago
They want to recruit you to being on their string of men. in their jar of hearts. I don't pretend to fully grasp the cuck dynamic but it seems to have a lot to do with her feeling really hot and desired. She has this power over men that her man will let her do this and quality men will come and give her hotness the tribute it deserves and cuck then praises her for it. From his point of view, it seems to me that he feels he is the one with the awesomely hot wife that they all want to bang but she is his and she goes home with him. She puts on shows of her hotness for him and high value guys are grateful to him. He somehow bizzarly thinks it enhances his status and her attractiveness to him while also being the ultimate piece of simping that keeps her his.
Even from an evolutionary perspective I can see it working best for her if the guys are all emotionally connected to her. There is just far more benefit there. Briffault's law always wins. Pussy always costs benefit.
This could end very badly because cuck is your friend. If the couple have really got it all worked out perfectly between them, know their boundaries and never have any issues over it, it could be OK, so long as you can work out the right boundaries for you between both of them for the future. Do you ever do them favours? How do you respond if she talks to you without him included? What do you say to him about it in private? It could end rather badly.
Lone_Ranger 1 3mo ago
I totally understand the cuck thing.
Women all want to be sluts, but are restrained by shame. When a man that she trusts says 'its ok darling, you can get fucked as long as its my idea and I can watch' then she is freed from the guilt and shame - its not her idea any more, its her mans idea.
For the guy, he just gets to see his woman being a slut, which is very exciting for him.
People really kink shame cucks. It's almost like the last taboo.
In reality, there is all kinds of cuckoldry. A man that likes his wife to dress up really sexy when they go out, in high heels etc, is experiencing a 'cuck lite' sort of thing. he sees that his wife looks sexy, he sees that other men notice her and want to fuck her, and he also sees that his wife is enjoying the sensation of other men wanting to fuck her. Then when they get home from teh party, he fucks his wife straight away, excited about the fact that other men have been drooling over his wife.
That being said - I am not sure what you think you are going to get out of being the bull in all of this. I doubt you will get anything out of it.
First-light 3mo ago
I agree about the freeing the slut in her from shame thing.
I think the reason why we shame cucks is that we would not like the men we care about in our lives to be raising bastards. That is the basic thing. Its why we seek fidelity from women -otherwise they would be less demanding of us and more satisfied but one could not be sure if she would stick around or if your kids were your own.
Lone_Ranger 1 3mo ago
Its a complex thing, I agree.
I don't think its healthy. I don't judge it, but I don't think its going to lead to anything good. Nobody is going to be happy in that sort of relationship.
Personally, I think that men that have a cuckold fetish have been emotionally abused or hurt by someone that they loved. And the only response that they can come up with is to eroticise the feeling of being humiliated or betrayed. It makes it safer for the man. It's very much like Stockholm syndrome.
Those men simply need a safe and loving relationship, a space where they are valued, where they can trust the person that they love NOT to hurt them.