Don't leave a comment if you're just gonna say my FWB (who is my friend) is "just a hoe, a wet hole, nobody cares."
Background she grew up in a religious household (non-mormon) and told me of the time her Dad brought up polygamy in their marriage and it hurt her Mom and strained the family. Her ex-husband also cheated on her before he divorced her.
A few weeks ago FWB said she needed to talk. Thought it was gonna be "the talk" but it wasn't. She said I'm young and needed to say this so I don't accidentally hurt her. She said I may see sex differently, but to her it's special and won't be part of a "rotation." She said that while we're fucking, she wants to be exclusive (she's low body count). It could be broken off to see other girls.
Knowing those things, and out of respect I agreed. I don't wanna lie through this. I agreed knowing I have such logistical difficulty isolating girls for sex, and thinking I wouldn't get many more options. This was also just after I went on a high interest kiss close date with an hb6.
I don't know what's happened since January, but I'm feeling options. It's as if seeing my FWB helped me dial into an attractive sexual energy. I've learned so through her. My SMV could've gone up another half point by lifting (and possibly growing out my hair). It wasn't like this before.
I met this cute 18yo high schooler and briefly spoke to her about college apps and theatre. I picked up on small IOI's but thought she wasn't interested. When I saw her a couple days later, she nervously asked me for my #. Now she won't stop texting me, and I made it flirty. https://imgur.com/a/mbaPlmi She's gonna be DTF shortly (if she isn't already). Now she’s texting me sexual photos of her clothed with legs spread. She dtf.
FWB texted me this morning saying how she wants me pinning her down tonight. We're going to have more rough sex with me as her Dom. I believe our time spent together bantering, fucking, and building sexual tension has been making my overall energy a sexual one. Other girls feel it.
My choices:
1) Become a deceptive liar and fuck other girls while still seeing my FWB as a "stand in boyfriend." Knowing if she finds out I killed out friendship. Despite slim odds of getting caught, I don't wish to do this.
2) Break it off with FWB
3) Do nothing
4) ??????? - Change her mind somehow?????? Fuck her harder or something?
MyBoyJob 1y ago
She's attached. You can't change her mind. Your options are 1 or 2. Scenario 1 you keep fucking her and others until she finds out, after which she will hate you. Scenario 2 you end it and she hates you. This is from my experience.
Given what I gather from your posts, I would say you learned the lessons you needed to. Women want to get fucked. You can fuck them. They love fucking you. I would say........continue to enjoy her company, but call it off as soon as you fuck the better one, and the better one also wants to fuck you again.
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
I'm guessing from the comments that she's a single mom and divorced. It's rare for a man to file for divorce and is usually because of drugs, criminality, violence, or a combination thereof. So she's probably got some skeletons in her closet. So she needs to get you locked down and pussy-whipped before you find out who she really is.
I'd just go back to being friends and fuck other women. Give it time to find out who she really is.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Ngl bro 1) her background is sus as fuck and 2) any chick that asks for exclusivity early on is a major red flag.
Cut her loose n keep baggin birdies don’t let her slow down your momentum
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pofkaf 1 1y ago
It's a simple question. Do you want to be exclusive with her? If yes, then communicate that to her and cut off sexual contact with other women. If no, communicate that to her and keep moving along with your life.
All plates break eventually. Your job is to keep them spinning as long as possible.
As a man, you are the gatekeeper of relationships. Wield that power wisely. Whenever you decide to commit, make sure your commitment means something.
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MrSupreme 1y ago
She just wants exclusivity early on, if you feel like having a LTR,with this girl, then go ahead cause that's what she's putting on the table (talk is cheap anyways). Whatever you do,and although red pill is amoral, I suggest you don't do the lying thing. It can backfire ,sure,and you leave behind yet another broken woman with trust issues. Plus it is a bunch of effort to be lying and hiding your actions all the time. You can sublimely let her know you are all about protection but are not ready to commit to a single girl.Or keep fucking her for a while, exclusively,Wich could make you finally trascend.
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MrSupreme 1y ago
Over analysis is common in you I think,you transcended too much.it doesn't have to be a Jedi Order Moral Code of Conduct discussion. If it's gonna be a pain in the ass to lie to her for whatever reason,and keeping that frame up then don't do it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Exclusive by default cause you weren't fucking other chicks. You shouldn't have agreed, she's in a meat market and can get new dick whenever she wants.
I don't understand why your choices are limited. Since you flubbed already it will be problematic to now change your mind on her. I would just fuck another chick when and if that happens and then tell her the truth and tell her it's okay if she doesn't want to continue
Don't go exclusive with women you don't want as a girlfriend at some point