I went to a concert where i met this woman, just because she was there by my side anyway. She was kinda cute so i was "well....". The 3hourish we spent together, she told me she was married, had 2 kids, she's 35 years and have been with her husband for about 11 (she said it with regret). She said, litteraly out of no context, this was the biggest mistake of her life, after i asked "tell me something very wrong you have already done". Said her husband didn't know she was there and so. . She explicitily said she didn't end yet because she's calculating her losses (Money. The guy has the cash.)
Bear in mind i went along with flirting from there on just as a learning experience as being "the other", since i have in my life a vast experience only in being "the orbiter". So i tested her limits (given we were in a public place full of ppl - and didn't even scratch the surface at the end), and she BASHED her husband to me (old skinny white lier etc). They don't live in the same house anymore. She made covert that she is not getting good pipe for a while (i'm needier than him/he is older/she tought he was marrying a good sweet girl/etc). She said "i know he loves me but his way of love is not compatible with myself". In other words, ALL THE BS that I HEAR when i'm orbiting. I gave my phone to her and she added her contact. She then said her kids weren't home that day.
Just remember: this is a married chick.
Since i was going along more out of curiosity, i didn't push things further. But if i had slept 2 hours more and in a mood, i would have cause she have big boobs and i'm in a dry. She also said she was a "bad girl" if i was a "sexist". I replied "I'm a heavy sexist" and she "so i'm very bad". So yes, my balls shaked. And, I also made clear that i'm "Just for fun". (i'm trying to remove my natural good boyfriend vibes). And then i got home and she texted me the same day, almost mid night...
So. Stick just for fun or will this become a nightmare?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
It would be an easy fuck man but idk. If she wasn’t married and just some dude’s girl I’d say fair play.
Married with kids… idk man you’re participating in adultery and ruining a family. it’s where I personally draw the line you’re free to make your own choices
liftheavystuff 1y ago
TL/DR: A self-declared beta orbiter asks random internet strangers if he should be a complicit participant in the destruction of a family.
"We will watch your career with great interest."
Electrical_Tackle 1y ago
1- It's already destroyed. 2- It's the man fault. Those who slip, fall. She made implicit that "he got her young", he was more than 10 years older, got her at 21, end ended up never "becoming relevant" as man. It's just a boring older guy. It's good hearing this to keep ME in check with "chips and videogames". That's what i care. Her family is not on me.
3- If you don't know why this post is here, it's because you don't have the experience of being shit - level up - and see people treating you differently and get confused about the best approach from there, because you either started up there or is still down there. Either way, I pass the moralising. I'm asking as practical advice about the bad consequences FOR ME. This woman will give her ass to another one any day anyway.
First-light 1 1y ago
I don't think its the man's fault if a woman is unfaithful, its the woman's fault if she breaks her side of the deal. Yes women are weaker than men but they still have moral responsibility. I am not moralising about if you bang her or not -as men in your position usually say "its not me who is married, its not my family". He is not your friend or relative and she is the one being unfaithful. But I don't think its healthy for men to be blamed for women's weaknesses.
Electrical_Tackle 1y ago
I think it its healthy, so you don't slip. It's like saying "its your fault being poor". Well, it might not be and it's debatable, but if you take 100% responsability you lower the chance.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
This kinda moralising bs doesnt belong here
liftheavystuff 1y ago
Continue on your path of self destruction then
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
It is against the rules. You're not objectively wrong, it is what it is, but red pill is a toolbox. You can use the tools for what you want, moralizing it is against the rules even if it's amoral
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
A) coolsocks isn't OP
B) he's right. Moralizing is against the rules at TRP and askTRP. it's about strategy, and strategy is amoral.
For all that I too disapprove of sleeping with married women, I'm going to focus on the practical consequences rather than engage in any moralizing when I reply to him.
liftheavystuff 1y ago
You create the world you live in. If that's ok with you, then carry on.
First-light 1 1y ago
It will start as fun, it will either fizzle out or end badly.
She is needy and she is disloyal and selfish. You would be best to bang and get out quite rapidly.
Electrical_Tackle 1y ago
Noted, thanks.
MrSupreme 1y ago
Red pill is amoral so I'll keep the preaching for some other time. I say go for it,she is clearly going to do it with someone,might as well be you. Just keep it casual, be invisible and let her do the logistics,you should have plates in the meantime. I don't see why she would cause trouble for you, if she wants it she'll make it happen
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah why not. I did that stuff when I was younger and low SMV. Lots of loose cougar pussy and 8hrs of dick soaking inside them.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Don't fuck with married women. It's how you get killed by a pissed off husband.