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What methodologies/ techniques do you use to retain a plate once you build a high level of attraction?
- How do you simultaneously maintain the commitment that she wants, while keeping it open on your end?
Women tend to trade sex in exchange for commitment, while men trade commitment for sex, however at times the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Let's keep it a buck, most women in the West don't deserve monogamy, and most men in exclusive relationships are complacent. That's why commitment is often called settling down, not settling up. The tricky part is how one navigates these fragile plates, after all, all it takes is one wrong move for them to collapse.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
It all lies in your willingness to walk away at any moment.
You basically gotta not give af whether the plate breaks or not at all times. When they can sense That they don’t control/affect you in any way shape or form then they’re more likely to stick around on the roster.
Also plates do all eventually break; they get a bf or whatever. Plates come back too it’s all gravy man
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
You just keep doing the things that got them in your bed to begin with. It's when you change up that they start to act differently.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Plates break dude. It happens. Be honest with them and they'll stick around longer than if they thought it was going somewhere and then you spring it on them
pancakesforbreakfast 1y ago
Confused what your job has to do with it. See each plate once a week for an hour and be awesome and she'll keep coming back.
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pancakesforbreakfast 1y ago
The hottest plates I've had are the most down for casual sex. It's the average girls who have their autism moments tbh. What makes you believe that women differ in fundamental behavior based on physical attractiveness? Please use real experience instead of ready-made red pill theory.
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pancakesforbreakfast 1y ago
Lmao incel detected. Good luck out there
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Tlalox 1y ago
You sound idiotic. Your complaint is you don’t want to fuck sluts so your solution is when you find a girl who isn’t a slut… and attempt to treat her like a slut.
Spin plates with the women who dgaf and just want dick.
For the women who don’t, I hate to break it to you but there isn’t a magical spell where you can say abra cadabra let me fuck whomever I can and you know about it and you’re ok with it forever.
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Tlalox 1y ago
Wow you rationalize, move goalposts and hamster like a women.
You keep going on and on about your fantasy unicorn, then when hypothetically you get her you talk about how to spin plates and treat her like another slut you claim to hate.
You’re basically saying you want a wife material nuclear family kinda girl with pussy on the side.
Do what the French and Chinese do, make enough money to have a mistress in another apartment or keep bitching endlessly online about it while acting haughty and condescending because others aren’t feeding your delusions of grandeur where your chad dick is so amazing ms former virgin will happily smile after you come up from fucking another random plate.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Don't.
It's her job to get you to commit.
If she leaves, fine.
Read the sidebar. Specifically: HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Too many guys on here try to permanently keep plates. It's against female nature sooner or later
You can extend a plate's life but not keep her around forever with no commitment
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
agreed. I'm also slowly learning that LTRs are on a time limit as well!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
LTRs are also unreliable nowadays.
This can largely be negated with serious vetting and seeing if after 4 months of dating a woman is still genuinely desirous of you and can't wait to be with you
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
I was thinking much longer time lines.
My experience (sad to say) is that women who were gasping for sex will lose interest after a few years. Its' soul destroying.
Every woman I have ever been in a serious LTR with will lose interest in sex (with me) after 4 years or so. heartbreaking stuff.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I meant four months ish to see if s girl still desires to officially date you
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Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
she sounds like a typical 'hot girl'. Just damaged from too much attention too much mollycollding and too much sleeping around. You did well to avoid.
benzino 1y ago
why are you second guessing yourself LOL
you just dodged not a bullet but a cannonball. she was set to fuck you up in the future for sure. I assume she's already fucking/ wanting to fuck another guy behind the Jewish dude's back. poor him.
First-light 1y ago
Its essentially an unstable dynamic. Hence the metaphor of a spinning plate. No one can spin a plate forever. You get tired and there are better things in life to do. Its not a way of life, its entertainment really. Briffault wins every time. You have to put energy in to spin a plate. Its the only way and once it gets to the point that you don't give her enough of whatever she needs to maintain the relationship (usually its entertainment if you are not betaing out and providing resources), then it breaks.
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First-light 1y ago
I see where you are coming from and I tend to agree. PUA culture fixes nothing, it only simps to women in a different way. It gives women something they like (albeit usually its very temporary). Its like giving them free alcohol when they ask for free food. Really they should from an early age be learning to grow food as a team with a good man. Giving them the PUA alcohol is harmful for them and it does the one who gives it to them no good in the long term. It just gives both sides affirmation and pleasure for a short while by pushing their buttons. Its empty in the end and I have given up on plates because I do not want to pour my energy into an empty hole of pleasing women short term and doing no good to anyone long term.
Black pill all sounds a bit negative to me. Its a very sad situation but I prefer to look at it in a red pilled way. If we get too bleak, it leads us to a lot of negative thought that harms us ourselves. Its not pretty but there have been many men who have lived all their lives with no sex in the past or only sex with whores because they didn't meet the threshold women and society had for men to mate. It could be even worse and the world would go on.
What I would encourage players (men who cultivate all the tells of High value and practise pleasing women) to do is to only play with the already lost women, not to ruin the good (or not too bad) girls. They might still get to build something with someone that lasted.
benzino 1y ago
well said. exactly my thoughts.
men need the experience though, to avoid BP manipulation and from women too.
I guess that justifies my attraction to goth chicks