How accurate is this? If you give emotional support and comfort to a girl while throwing in a little bit of flirting and intent, would she ever sleep with you?
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financehardo420 1mo ago
tell us you’re a faggot without saying you’re a faggot
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Is this a cope question or what
pancakesforbreakfast 1mo ago
Strong red pill zealot vibes.
Fellas it will help everyone if you add how your question pertains to you in the body through a past experience and everyone will think more of you since you moved your butt off your cheeto-covered chair and did something
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
What?
OP has said in previous posts his game isn't good. I'm taking it he is asking this as a backdoor way to get laid instead of as a general question.
pancakesforbreakfast 1mo ago
I'm agreed with you bro. Just adding on to your comment. My gun is down lol
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Ah i thought
Red pill zealot was aimed at me
pancakesforbreakfast 1mo ago
Nah I like your stuff that I've read
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
I really appreciate that man, thanks for clarifying
joyboy 1mo ago
The furthest I’ve gotten with hot girls is getting friendzoned despite making my intentions clear from the beginning, only ugly/fat chicks are interested in banging me so I’ve decided to change my approach
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Clearly you didn't take our previous advice, it doesn't sound like giving you more is productive unless you fix that
You sound like a defeated whiner imo
joyboy 1mo ago
I did? The previous advice you gave me was to just do the readings which I completed.
I’m not defeated cause I’m still trying
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Did you just read or meaningfully process any of it
No one who meaningfully processed that stuff would be shitting in the squalor that is what you just posted
joyboy 1mo ago
Yes I read all of it meaningfully and reflected on it. You could literally ask me anything and I could tell you
I’m just trying to break my dry spell as soon as possible
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
You have the completely wrong attitude
You definitely did not meaningfully accept the material. Is this prize mentality?
If the answer is no you did not meaningfully accept the material
joyboy 1mo ago
I mean yeah I know I should have the “I am the prize” mentality which is why I made that post asking how to develop irrational self confidence. It’s way easier said than done and “small successes” like you said I should strive for haven’t been sufficient for me to build that.
The only way I could see myself getting that mentality is finally being able to lay a hot girl, I’d have abundance and prize after that for sure
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Look man, you're trying to fight against reality. Game some trashy bar sluts if you're not willing to make incremental changes to your attitude or inner self worth
You're on track to be a major askhole on this site that keeps asking "why dis not working?"
You just don't like the answer you're being given. If your SMV is where it's actually at in your first post ever then your inner and outer game are just shit
Either make the changes or don't. All you're doing here is looking for magic bullets and you're not going to get one.
I'm trying to help you. Your density is going to be your downfall here. You just don't like the answer because it isn't an immediate bandaid
You're unfortunately one of those dudes that hates himself so much that you're going to have to fix a lot of that before you even have a chance to fuck a 5
joyboy 1mo ago
I'm not sure where my SMV stands. It's true that I've maxed everything in terms of physique, style, grooming, etc, to the best of my ability (just working on money now) but I'm also short and not European (which is objectively a disadvantage).
I understand that I have to make changes in my mentality (mainly jealousy/envy) and am taking steps to do that. When I asked here, people said I "just need to get laid" or "read the sidebar" which didn't really help
User4566 1mo ago
No, you shouldn’t let anyone use you for emotional support unless they are near and dear to you. The things I’ve heard guys tell me when they were emotional tampons for women is just really disappointing. One girl told him how she doesn’t like hook-ups and wanted more of a FWB to fulfill her sexual needs and how her ex was a douche and all that shit. He just sat there and thought “yeah, if I keep this up, maybe she’ll see I’m a good guy and she’ll give me my turn.”. I knew he was never going to fuck her and he never did. I told him from the start to ask her out or cut his losses.
Basically, she used him to feel better about her situation and to get affirmations of her feelings. There was absolutely nothing given in return to the guy. It’s typical “nice-guy” behavior at it’s finest.
joyboy 1mo ago
Why didn’t that guy escalate and say something like “Well I’m right here” and try and become the fwb? sounds like it was his fault he was in that situation
imtranscending 1mo ago
Well let’s not discuss absolutes. My fwb has cried on my shoulder, and I’ve wiped tears off her face.
We fuck hard after that.
Kreaton01 1mo ago
If you're asking if she would sleep with you just because you gave her emotional support, then no.
joyboy 1mo ago
But giving emotional support isn’t a negative right? As long as you don’t open up about your own problems and be a “rock” for them?
I’ve read some redpill material where guys say listening to her problems just makes you an instant orbiter so I’m not sure
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
Sounds like a question a feminist would ask, with the roles reversed.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Its not a good strategy. You will end up becoming her gay bestie.
By all means, try it. But your odds are very poor when you act as an emotional tampon.
First-light 1mo ago
Does she fancy you? If she can already see herself under you, it might be a successful way to get close.
Otherwise, its just the white knight's error.
The only other way it works if is she is really down on herself and hamsters her way to some settling.
Beware emotionally unstable women who like losing it and getting the pieces picked up for them. If this is a woman you do not know well who is crying, probably she is emotionally unstable. What are the odds of an emotionally stable person crying in front of a relative stranger they fancy? Happens how many times in a decade?
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
Yes
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Trying to accelerate his inevitable learning the hard way, huh?
joyboy 1mo ago
I'm asking cause I've tried acting in my frame where I just deflect and ignore when she opens up but then I get cut off and ghosted for being a emotionless jerk
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
The question was "would she ever sleep with you"..... and yes, she would. I know relatively unattractive guys who leverage female emotional vulnerability as the point to escalate and then proceed to fuck them.
It can work.
Urgh.