What you have done is become the gatekeeper of sex. You flipped it. Power to you. Using them during dryspells is a good move. Plus women can't control your sex life. Women will shame you the most for this becuase intakes away their biggest power. Don't feel any shame.

The so called positive you outline is nothing but a band aid, for a problem you can actually solve. By that, i mean that you’re treating symptoms instead of the cause.

This whole post is an extraordinary over analysis. As @coolsocks00 already mentioned, this is a bandaid solution.

I'm not going to rehash my arguments against why escorts are meaningless from previous times I've commented on escort posts

Gist of my point is that all it takes to see an escort is money. The 600 fugly fatass neckbeard patron has the same access to the same poon as the Henry Caville client giving her her selling price.

It's meaningless. It is pure transactional sex. If someone is that desperate for a nut that's all it is, purest form of unadulterated transactional sex there is, it's a reflection of your funds not your abilities as a man

I can't stand when you spergs make philosophical post about escorts and how it goes into red pill. It doesn't, you're exchanging money for a service that's all it is. It's not some kind of profound RP stepping stone, it's just busting a nut for a sum of cash

This is about as revelational as telling us you can purchase sex. Great. You spergs need to stop looking for whether something is alpha or beta and stop starving your hamster of oxygen. Go touch grass

Sounds like you are just making mouth noises to justify what you want to do, which is pay whores for sex.

Your whole post comes across as some low value man who is poorly calibrated, has poor frame, goes to whores, and puts women at the centre of his life.

And about those whores..."If you lay down with the dogs, you are going to get fleas".

Band aids can be pretty useful sometimes.

When my first marriage broke down, after my divorce, I visited whores for a couple of months, maybe 3. Actually I found it really helpful. Never done it since (two decades later). The band aid worked, never needed one again. Doubt I ever will.

Why did I do it? Well I had married as a virgin and the marriage had been terrible sexually (never ever come close to sleeping with someone so not into sex ever since). That was a pretty big handicap. I wanted to have experienced other women, to have some idea of what a man was supposed to do. To just come to sex not feeling guilty for desire. My wife's attitude to sex had been "I don't like this but I will put up with it because I am married. I do not want to try to enjoy it. I do not want you to try to help me enjoy it. I do not want to talk about sex" I also wanted to not "freeze up" when I encountered another woman.

The whores had another spin off for me that I had not anticipated. They stopped me being so thirsty. I could look at a woman in a take it or leave it kind of way that I had not been able to before. This really helped me to get with a woman who was certainly an 8 out of ten, maybe a 9 and who liked sex. After that I never looked back. I seemed to go through a bit of a Chad phase as I became a late developer.

I think that the amount I spent on the whores was really well invested in my case. I spent less than a week's wages in total at a really cheap backstreet whorehouse.

One of my best friends by contrast -who started off much better with women than I did- got addicted to them and regrets an addiction he feels holds him back. He also likes the expensive ones.

Medicine can be addictive or it can be used as medicine.

Lmao as long as you don't go broke seeing hookers I don't see the issue. It's definitely beats jerking off.

You realize all you’re doing is inviting a moral debate here, right?

You’re going to get a bunch of posts on “banging whores is bad because…” and “banging whores is great because…” and none of that is going to help you or the average guy get closer to what he wants out of life. 99% of sex with escorts/prostitutes/callgirls/women of the night is men settling for something that they can’t get right now via any other means of attracting women, period. Understanding that fact is key to recognizing that - as you pointed out - whores are just a coping mechanism.

Dating is just another form of prostitution. You pay either way, whether in time wasted or money. I prefer to give the money directly to the woman, skip the date, and proceed to sex.

While hoes are a dual edged sword, so are housewives. I had to learn RP to make my marriage work and be happy. That's a lot of time and money invested but I got kids and a friend to share life with. With a hoe you don't get that but you get anonymity and no accountability. THAT"S WHY I DO BOTH! MUAHAHAHAHA. WOOO!!!! Male dual mating strategy at it's finest.

I was watching this video of this guy going around asking women to have sex with him. He'd flash out $500 and say, "This is the price, take it or leave it." Every woman took it. They're all whores for the right price. So, using escorts is perfectly okay. It all depends on the price.

my biggest problem was I used to get desperate if I had a dry spell, causing me to often times lose frame with the girls I go on dates with.

Rubbing one out before a date fixes this problem.