I live in Iran, which, if you don't know, is a highly conservative country that views sex as bad and evil. They shame you for wanting it. Therefore, it makes it really hard to find a girl because girls here say no to sex before marriage, but they have no problem having guys pay for them or doing boyfriend stuff for them. However, they say, 'If you want sex, then marry me!'

I hate how I can't find someone who doesn't view sex as a negotiation and a bridge to get married. They have this stupid mentality that what if I have sex and the guy leaves me? They use sex as a way to get what they want, which is commitment, but they are unwilling to do anything to earn it. They just feel like they are owed commitment!

What should I do when there are a lot of kinds of girls like this? I'm tired of wasting my time and resources on someone just for them to tell me they don't want any intimacy and they just want a beta to marry them and use sex as a means for their own agenda.