I know this title may look like a joke, but i watched a Hamza video who goes by those sentences and, it's tough. It was like "guys worse than you have fucked her".
Allow me to elaborate:
Here we (me) are, 30 years old male who got no pussy from 0 to Forever. Typed some shit in google and found RP. Then you get to the "self-improvement" side of it, which depending where you come from (me) required THREE-TO-MORE YEARS of work to be somewhat desirable. Then you go chat to girls, who by now goes from the age gap of 25-30, given your own age. While we (me) were working, they were fucking. And they were fucking dudes who were the top of the crap, which some genetics or favorable contexts. Had to do no work in themselves. Dicked them down all the way to Hell. And now you have to "show proof that you are better than him because all my previous relationships ended like crap because blablabla", you know what i'm talking about. .
LET ME GO FURTHER. .
The other day i went out with a girl. Just to accopany her to a meeting she had. Met her, kissed in her lips. All good and fun, ate together, felt like it was a good idea to buy her a flower from woman's day and so, talked, kissed, goodbye. After a while a thought came into my head: I kissed this girl. Since she's 30, and had been in long relationships, supposing she had sex once a week since 20 - which is not much, probably double for a regular girl - she sucked cock at least 500 times in her life. Those girls were religiously fucking and getting deep-throated for 5-10 years, and we (me) were grinding. Someone cummed in their mouth and face probably more than 300 times. And i bet those dudes were just regular or worse dudes. And there was I accompanying her and kissing her in her lips, like "waiting for the scraps", getting a kiss. I'm sorry if this ruined for you guys too. .
I know it's too autistic to analyze like this, but i did felt a pinch in my heart and can't see a way out, since obviously all girls had "exes", and if i had/have to bust to be attractive, they were fucking meanwhile, and IF I'M LUCKY, IT WAS JUST ONE BOYFRIEND. Which we know it's not the case. So the feeling is, all the grind just to "try being with" people who was dumped by guys worse than us (me). Wtf.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
Either you can accept female nature and live with it or you can go crazy trying to rationalize it. This is what we call "crossing the Abyss". You have an instinct to be repulsed by promiscuous women. All guys do.
Here's a funny anecdote: I jizzed in a very hot prostitute. Afterwards, we both got up, put our clothes on, and she walked me downstairs where another guy was waiting for her and they went straight up to the room. I wonder if he ate her out and tasted my cum...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
Bruh
TRPDuryodhana 1mo ago
Evolutionarily, the disgust makes sense lol.
But, seriously, are most chicks actually seeing this much action? I don't think so at all! Not sure about US/Europe, but at least in the Indian cities, I don't think it's like this at all.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1mo ago
SOME chicks are seeing that much action. A lot of them are actually holding out for months and then getting on the tingles train for right guy right time right place, regretting it and then avoiding sex for a bit longer
There are a lot of girls going 4 months+ at a time of not doing anything for various reasons. Yes, those numbers still add up over time but not every chick is getting her back blown out monthly, weekly, etc
deeplydisturbed 1mo ago
This is a common feeling
Get over it
Or live in despair
Your choice
Hondurak 1mo ago
I wouldnt think about it this way. Theres two things I learned about women in regards to giving pussy to who you perceive as lower value men:
Hes in her league. If youre high smv you will be rejected by low smv women, while they give devote their entire lives to average sub-par men. If she deals with lower value men, its because she sees them as attainable for LTR, longevity reasons. She learned that men above a certain smv dont take her serious at all.
Electrical_Tackle 1mo ago
Do you know what happens when i do 2? ("Not care much") -- First they complain about "ghosting", then, they ghost.
MrSupreme 1mo ago
A lot of urine and menstrual fluid has passed through that vajayjay too,so don't go down on her. She has probably thrown up while drunk a few times so don't kiss her vomit infested mouth. Her tits sweat too,so no sucking on those either. Sheesh looks complicated
MFVORX 1mo ago
Every hand you've ever touched has had a ween in it. I stopped shaking hands before it was cool.
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
I dunno, man, does she use mouthwash, or does she have like permanent jizz breath?
I can understand your reaction if it was the latter. Nobody likes getting backwash jizz in their mouth.
However, if the former is the case, then at least you know she's a pro at gargling, and is probably using it properly.
coolsocks00 1 1mo ago
Are you a cuck? No? Then why the fuck be insecure
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Most YouTubers aren't worth 2 shits. I never heard of him, but looked him up and took a quick glance. He strikes me as a grifter.
If you want actionable Red Pill content on YouTube, then watch Rian Stone. He doesn't bat 1000 (no one does), but he's dammed good.
You've been RPed for at least 3 years, and you're buying flowers for a woman you haven't even fucked?!
I don't believe you.
Electrical_Tackle 1mo ago
"You've been RPed for at least 3 years, and you're buying flowers for a woman you haven't even fucked?!"
Conditioning. . "If you want actionable Red Pill content on YouTube, then watch Rian Stone. He doesn't bat 1000 (no one does), but he's dammed good."
I'm looking into it. Hamza's video are good. It's good when you are slacking and he post a video saying "someone is fucking your future wife while you eat McDonald's".
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
If you're 3+ years in (hell, even just a month or two in), you should be past that already.
Relevant article: Be A Skittles Man by Roissy/Heartiste.
That line alone tells me that he's a retarded bloopie.
Why the fuck would you want a wife, knowing what you know about women's nature, our current laws and courts, and divorce statistics?
And I'm saying that as a man who has been married 18 years.
Additionally, as a man, your job is to get sex. Commitment/relationship is the woman's concern. You can be open to relationships, and grant them to women who earn them, but actively seeking one is against your interests.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
The skittles guy post is something everyone should read once a month. It's funny, its true, and its educational.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1mo ago
Agreed. I go back and reread it occasionally for all those reasons.
First-light 1mo ago
Women are not worth what they used to be -when you could get a young virgin bride who was expected to be loyal for life, whose children belonged to you and could not legally divorce rape you if it didn't work out. In the past women were worth dying for. Instead today you are dealing with older used goods that can have life changing legal consequences.
Don't go too far for them. Don't risk too much on them financially, physically or emotionally. Having accepted that, you have to try to flourish in the times you have been planted, so go forth and enjoy them, even multiply with them, cautiously.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
that is a solid observation "Women are not worth what they used to be"
When I think of my mother and my grandmother, the loyal, hard working, child raising, obedient and faithful women that they were, I just can't see any women like that in the modern world. Those women (my mother and grandmother) were worth providing for. They were worth protecting.
Women nowadays are barely worth fucking. Most of them are so damaged from trauma that they are sort of dead inside. I can remember what it was like having sex with women when I was about 20, and the women were new to sex. It was amazing. The trembling orgasms, they would come in under a minute.
When women have been around the block a bit, they basically lose interest in sex. It's one of life's mysteries. The more sexual partners they have, the less interest they have in sex. It's like they become impotent pretty easily, purely by exposure to sex. It reminds me of children and fairgrounds. Kids are really excited the first few times, and then they are bored of it.
The last thing you want is a post wall washed up women with a bag full of trauma (high body count) and attachment issues. This kind of women is always shit in bed. There is a straight line relationship between 'experience' and being shit in bed. The more experienced a woman is, the worse they are to fuck.
Electrical_Tackle 1mo ago
"Don't go too far for them. Don't risk too much on them financially, physically or emotionally. Having accepted that, you have to try to flourish in the times you have been planted, so go forth and enjoy them, even multiply with them, cautiously."
How the hell do not "risk too much financially, physically or emotionally" when you went from zero to somebody through these investments? "Invest in yourself and girls will come" you do and you get the leftovers from dudes who didn'.t
First-light 1mo ago
Surely its best to invest in yourself for yourself not for girls but even if you did invest in yourself for them, you now have the benefit for yourself. You will still have a higher quality of used female than if you had not invested in yourself.
An investment in yourself is a good thing in itself-like buying a house, learning, business or athletic performance. Buying a fancy car and smart clothes to attract girls is less value for money. Spending money taking girls out, on holiday and buying them presents is very poor value for money. Marriage is an insane risk for no gain.
Leftovers is the market though unless you want a woman who is a bit different and probably not in a good way or who comes from a far off land. Why would any sane woman not enjoy a boyfriend or two or more? She loses nothing and gets fun and nice stuff. One has to find one who was moderate not excessive and the damage is not too great.
It just is what it is, sadly. Celibacy or left overs are the options or I suppose cradle snatching but that is very unfashionable these days.
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
poor or fat?
Yep. And while we are retiring rich and happy and drowning in young pussy, they will be suffering.
No. Fuck that shit. You don't have to prove a damned thing. Don't jump through dumb hoops.
WHAT THE FUCK.
Go on, declare yourself to be a weak loser simp provider and be surprised when the pussy is dry? Have you learned nothing here?
So why pay so much for so little?
Fuck that shit.
Here's a better option: live your life for yourself, not for girls. Don't give them everything. Ideally don't give them anything. Get what you want, don't pay everything, live your own fucking life.
Electrical_Tackle 1mo ago
poor or fat?
Poor, skinny fat, hairy, yellow and crooked tooth - i had one broken for years cause i had no money to fix it. I went from 80 Kg, 13% BF to 92 13% BF -- and now i'm bulking on testosterone. Had my teeth fixed and whitened, shaved my hair, got tattoos, bought my own apartment. Three degrees.... Bought my own apartment. And then...
"Yep. And while we are retiring rich and happy and drowning in young pussy, they will be suffering."
I read that and see in YT videos. I don't see in real life. If you are really 30, good like "fishing 20's". It never worked for me, honestly. They see me as the "older dude", rather stick to their tik tok boys. If you go to 25's, then back to my original post. If you are 35, all it's left are scraps from man worse than you. Or, you "plate", as RP say. Which means she'll kiss you on sunday with the mouth that sucked another cock saturday. What a deal.
I'll tell you this: The "entitlement" here may be high, while the results with woman are not. But i can't avoid reading incels saying "it's not worth the squeeze" without feeling a pich and thinking "fuck, dudes were right".
"So why pay so much forso little?" "Go on, declare yourself to be a weak loser simp provider and be surprised when the pussy is dry? Have you learned nothing here?"
I don't know, dude. I'm lost. Sidebar is full of shit. It's like "do a lot of work and you MAY end up with 2-3 personal temporary girls - until they are done and go for another cock". It's a crap result, honestly. "live your own fucking life" it goes by "buy a dog and stay alone" at this point. If after all, that's the point, everyone can just grab a street dog and move to the country side, instead of all this "self-improvement".
This "game" is tiring.
mattyanon Admin 1mo ago
Worse in what way? Why are women choosing them if they are worse?
I think you have some dishonesty with yourself here. You define yourself as better and then accuse women of choosing worse. Be more honest and admit that women want certain things, and if you want to fuck them you need to be those things.
Look.... honestly..... "not worth it" might be a valid answer for a lot of men. Going your own way has got to be better than an unhappy marriage.
This was in answer to buying flowers. Provider behaviour is deeply unattractive. You should understand that by now.
Or until you ditch them for better pussy.
But what's the alternative....... long term stability with one girl? That's a pipedream...... doesn't work. Women are not wired for long term monogamy.
I don't get your point.
Are you hoping that learning TRP will get you a virgin bride? Or are you disappointed that you don't get laid enough?
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Got tattoos?
smdh. What a poor choice.
coolsocks00 1 1mo ago
Bla bla bla. If you dont like women, dont deal with them. Suck dicks or whatever makes you feel good. We dont care
When you are a guy who fucks, you’re able to keep women you enjoy in your life, and can discard the rest.
Your real issue is that you’re not actually there yet, so you make up excuses and let your insecurities control you.
kv2_0833 1mo ago
bro you are 30 you cannot be choosy to this point until you are more experienced
Electrical_Tackle 1mo ago
I didn't understand.
kv2_0833 1mo ago
You say you have little experience. You are 30. Perhaps you should lower your expectations first, stop worrying about "getting leftovers" and just chill out and get some experience. You kissed her because you wanted to kiss her, why the fuck are you spiralling about her past after you both leave. Are you thinking of dating her? No? Then stop giving a fuck. And I know the shitty feeling but you just got to deal with it. Be around women and do things with them because you enjoy their company and want to, and stop worrying about their history and all the guys they've been with ESPECIALLY if you are not thinking of dating them exclusively.
Red_dead 1mo ago
If it make you feel better the cells in your mouth replenish at the fastest rate by the time your in there its a whole new mouth.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Here you are obsessing over prior guys (retroactive jealousy) for a girl that you haven't even fucked and are not in a relationship with
That is some next level retard autistic stupidity.
While we're at it... you say you've been RP for three years and you're still going out on dinner dates and buying her flowers? Are you trying to give her the dry pussy? Why not just tell her you're a cuck and want to live in the friend zone for the rest of your life? Wt actual fuck.
It's like you walking around with a t-shirt that says 'beta cuck wants to bail out left over sluts that have been kicked off the CC'
coolsocks00 1 1mo ago
Being red pill aware without actually accepting and internalizing, coupled with oneitis, seems to be a bad mix for a lot of guys.