Girls youve fucked in the past, or currently, if they just text "Hey" is that usually a bootycall?
This happens often with girls who i have sexual relations with. I usually never respond until a few days later when i want to meet up and set logistics.
Usuaully these texts occur at 8pm or like 12am on weekends when im already busy. Not sure if these are booty call texts. How do you guys normally respond? I feel like saying "how are you" or etc is super beta and boring and basic. Because i never know what to reply i just ignore.
Do girls do this for attention? Or is it an invitation to escalate into a spontaneous thing?
No-Stress-Cat 1 2y ago
Her: "Hey!"
Me: "I want to fuck you in the ass."
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Instead of masturbating about it, make logistics dude wtf
"You staying out of trouble on a Monday night?"
"You bored?"
"What r u up to?"
Respond accordingly dude. Stop being a retarded alpha thinking there's some iron god rule about texting back 2-3 days later like some dread bot with a one-track algorithm for gaming hoes.
If you try making plans or whatever and they say no and keep texting for attention anyway then ignore dude, c'mon use common sense
Find out with them not us. How would we know. It could be either depending
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
You won't know either way until you try to escalate.
Assuming you can work the logistics (whether you host or she hosts), reply as though it's a booty call.
If she agrees to get together at your place or hers, it was a booty call. If she does anything else, she just wanted attention.
If you're busy or otherwise can't make it happen that night, feel free to ignore and reply the next day or whenever.
This isn't rocket science.
You aren't going to find out what each individual woman wants in the moment without trying to escalate, and you damn sure aren't going to find out by navel-gazing, ruminating, or asking a bunch of strangers online.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Always be closing.
That is sage advice. Escalate until failure. There is no other way.
There is a great phrase in German - "If something is stuck - force it. If it breaks, no matter, because it was stuck anyway"
I really cannot see why OP is asking us this question - if a chick that he has fucked in the past is texting him, wtf does he wait a few days before getting back to her? For his pride? So that he doesn't feel used? Wtf ? That is some chick level thinking.
The only question OP needs to be asking himself (not us) when he gets a whats up text from a chick he is dicking at night time is this: Do I want to fuck this chick right now or not? Is the effort worth the reward?
That is all the matters - what OP wants.
No-Stress-Cat 1 2y ago
Instructions unclear. Dick stuck inside Russian chick. Wouldn't let go. Broke dick off trying to get it out. Send reinforcements.
Overkill_Engine Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Give her the opportunity for a booty call. If she wants it, she'll bite.
If not, well you have your answer and it's up to you if you want to reward a lack of interest or not.
Note: Just don't be a complete autist about it and include some layer of plausible deniability as to why she is coming over at least at first. Bluntly belting out "Hey bby want sum fuck?" like some sorta LARPING sperg usually only has a chance of working if there is a huge SMV gap in your favor and/or a particular kind of woman. You gotta massage their egos a bit. A Stripper prefers to be called an Exotic Dancer, even though both labels clearly mean they take their clothes off for money.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 2y ago
It's always for attention.
You have to understand, even fucking her, is attention.
attention, validation, something to do because she's bored. Whatever, does it matter?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
She's lonely.
Invite her over, then you'll know where you stand.,
JohnNada 2y ago
"Wanna fuck?
Boom, that easy.
Optionally when this one flakes, you can go out and ask a girl the same question.
Dude, every chick uses her cellphone for validation when she’s lonely. She’s living in a wolrd of thirst while you’re living in a world of dried dick!