Hey gents. I only have 2 days a week free for dates.
If I take a girl out for the first time, its something usually casual (coffee, museums, parks, etc). Dates usually last about 2 hours, and I kino around the halfway mark or earlier. The kino goes really well, and before we split ways, I always get a kiss close and I feel the girl tugging on my clothes.
I usually have sex after the 3rd (sometimes 2nd) date, which is a problem since I have only 2 days available for dates, and want to meet other girls.
Problem is, I can't close on the first date due to logistics: 1) I meet girls in the city, but I live in the suburbs (~40 mins by drive) 2) I don't bring girls back to my place since they'd have to spend the night and its hard to get back into the city without a car, so I would then have to drop them off the next day.
Advice for getting an invite to her place? I have a car and usually offer to drop them off home where the make out sessions happen, but they usually always just ask to see me again vs inviting me up.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Have you tried simply casually dropping that you live 40 minutes away? Not like you're homeless or living with your parents. When I go to venues in another city i mention that i live and hour away during the "do you live here" casual conversation and they actually invite me. I had two girls try to take me home in one night with zero game (like i didn't game them worth shit). Sadly the hotter one I left with got cold feet after kinoing me in the car, saying i could stay the night, and telling me I was cute
Also i have a field report of a first night lay with analysis. It's already typed I've just been trimming the unnecessary length. Should be up tomorrow
ChadifiedAsian 1y ago
I do say where I'm coming from (usually at the beginning of the date). They usually ask how far that is from the city, but nothing further in my experience. So not sure how else to proceed. Appreciate the FR - will check it out once you post.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Probably not sufficiently attracted or sufficiently turned on. Especially if you are not attempting to pull. A lot of women will not take initiative even if they are turned on. You have to at least try
ChadifiedAsian 1y ago
Of course that's the case in the beginning, but when I'm engaging in the date, they respond well to the kino or kino me. They also tug on my clothes during the make outs, so there's just a missing gap here. I guess - to rephrase, how else can I pull besides engaging in these make out sessions?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Is it not obvious? The missing gap is you trying to pull, dude
Actions over words dude, they are making out all horny and you're being a pussy. You already have logistics down and you are not making a move to come in. Give them literally any plausible deniability
ChadifiedAsian 1y ago
Def being a pussy ngl. I don't enterprise on this opp. How would you recommend I suggest going up? If it's in your FR, that's cool too
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
In my FR i picked probably the most anti-sexual pull possible, and I actually gave it before we left. My pull wording was why we left when we did. It literally doesn't matter, if anything the more plausible the better.
If they are sufficiently horny or attracted they will let you in. The amount of times women have told me "they have to leave at x, go to bed at Y" and then still fucked me and blew me for 3 more hours. Dude just go for it. Only a hard NO really matters for wording from them