you generally are what you attract. If you’re ok with having non committed sex all the time that’s the kind of person you attract I mean you both have that in common.

In the west quality women are very scarce. This means they naturally tend to have a surplus mindset and that makes them harder to find and to court.

If they went to bars and chatted up random strangers or swiped through tinder, they would soon pick up countless guys and then pick up all the bad habits of a life on the carousel, soon becoming trashy or exploitative or entitled or all of these. They simply are hard to find.

I would say "go where the game is" You won't shoot many duck in the desert. I would consider what sort of girl you are looking for, what aims and values you would like her to have, then research a bit on what sort of things girls like that tend to be doing.

If you want a home maker type for example they are probably doing homemaker type activities for leisure -gardening, cooking, allotment growing, craft type activities. If you want a healthy woman with good genes, athletics clubs (as opposed to gyms) actually have a lot of high quality women a surprising number of whom of whom have minimal cock counts because they have been too busy training (anyone who has competed at a national level tends to avoid bars and clubs, boose and getting their headspace messed up, many at county level too). Now you would have to either like growing vegetables or be prepared to go to bed early and take her to a lot of races but having a family is going to involve some compromises and if you have enough shared interest its ok.

Note: churches are a real mixed bag. Personally I wouldn't but some get good results. You can get some attractive devout low cock count women but if "you must have my beliefs" come into it in religion, believe me this is going to come into it in lots of other ways too. The reason they are low cock count is that they are fussy and difficult as much as devout and faithful or they are devout and faithful and have minimal sex drive. You also get a lot of women who are really into church but are also really into cock. They love getting carried away together singing in the choir and they like getting carried away together on the couch. In religious groups (till I had enough of them) I found a surprising number of sluts. Don't be fooled by piety. Whatever she is doing in church, she is not doing it for you.

One can't stress too heavily in this age of swiping left, you will have to compromise. The perfect spouse does not exist any more than the perfect house or piece of land, even if it was perfect now, it wouldn't be in two years time when needs and interests have changed. You have to get one good enough that you can work with and some compromise will be needed, I mean just look in the mirror, she has to take you. The prefect man does not exist either.

It's our modern day society. There are no family-worthy women in the west anymore. Like all the good men, they're long gone. You're going to be needing a passport, young brother.

You don't really give enough information to judge the situation appropriately. But even if you are living in "the west", there is still some gf material out there. If I were you, I would check especially 1.) how you filter girls and 2.) how you meet girls (preselection).

E.g. if you only meet girls in bars, well, you do have quite a bit of option for improving your prospects.