Ive been seeing this girl for two months now. Shes really hot, great body, really sweet, she cooks for me, is never disrespectful, completely submissive (we differ politically but whatever what girl isnt a liberal nut in a big American city)
I know she wants to date me because last night she told me “my therapist told me to tell you Im not seeing anyone else but you” and she would say “does talking about us seriously make you uncomfortable?”
However Im moving in two weeks. This girls been great and I want to keep seeing her till I leave but I feel thats fucked up because she doesnt know Im leaving. I also feel shes become attatched.
How can I do this in the most gentlemanly way possible
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MrSupreme 2y ago
Just tell her, she will be disappointed you didn't tell her sooner and I don't think at this stage you can avoid that. It will be far from heartbreak but there will be feelz
EndlessSavage 2y ago
Okay thank you.
EndlessSavage 2y ago
Should i wait till our date tuesday or tell her over phone tomorrow?
MrSupreme 2y ago
If you really like her and care for her then do it on the date,in person.Tell her you'll miss her too, and that you really like her. If it is legit then I don't see any reason not to be a bit emotional.it is sort of a goodbye after all
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Stop being afraid of other peoples emotions / feelings. Stop making yourself responsible for other peoples emotions.
This is a great example of how easy it is to manipulate young men who lack proper Red Pill knowledge. This woman has already got OP to feel that her emotions are his responsibility. OP is now worried about the future possible tears of a woman. He does not realise it, but he is 100% in her frame. He is like a remote control toy for her.
OP - how old are you? How old is she? I am guessing she is an adult, so she is responsible for her own feelings.
The only time you should be worried about others feelings and emotions is when you are the parent of a young child.
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Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
I guess we know that @tTestme isn't a parent, because he immediately throws in wife to the children bucket.
My mission is to protect and raise my children. That's it. I am not provisioning for my wife, and my wife knows that. My loyalty is my kids.
You probably won't get it, and never will. If you think it's 'beta' to raise, develop and protect your kids, then you're wasting your time on planet earth.
Run along now.
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Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
always with the retardation.
My top tip for you Testme: never have children.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Her feelz, her problem.
Flip it the other way and see how much of a fuck she gives.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
100%.
Will most likely be crocodile tears anyway. OP might be shocked at how quickly he is replaced.
EndlessSavage 2y ago
Def wont be shocked haha
EndlessSavage 2y ago
Does stuff like this need to be in person or can text due since shes not a LTR?
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Up to you, but don't burn bridges. Since therapists are involved in her life, expect some shit or guilt trips. Or maybe the 'therapist' is just an excuse to bring up the talk.
You're not exclusive, so you don't owe her shit. Fuck the slave morality.
Read about fogging and use when necessary. Don't DEER.
I had some similar shit at my job many years ago when I was in the USA. Hooking up with a coworker on the regular for a couple of months. I had to go back to my country and didn't have time to say goodbye. After she found out, I've seen some emotional statuses on fb lmao, but that was it.
She'll hop on the next dick in no time. You can hit her up when you get back.
Overkill_Engine Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Shit happens. Don't lie. Don't delay. Don't obfuscate. If she breaks it off early once she hears, deal with it like an adult instead of trying to cling until the last second by being avoidant or dishonest. 90% of the problems men run into with women are due to women being dishonest, don't go acting like a woman and expecting it to work out.
Own your shit, but only your shit.
EndlessSavage 2y ago
Can I text her this since were not official or is that bad character?
Overkill_Engine Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
If she has behaved well enough and you have no rational reason to avoid doing it in person, do it in person.
She's likely to cry at minimum. Women do that. May want to do it in a neutral/semi-public venue. For several reasons, if you put some thought into it.
Now, if you've withheld info from us and failed to mention she's 10 lbs of crazy bitch in a 5lb bag, then maybe text is better.
StrongWoman 2y ago
I don't understand the question, she will just find somebody else. Either she is alpha-widowed by you (possible, as she is a liberal, but still cooking for you etc....are you tall?) and will make her future boyfriends life hell, or she will just forget about you quickly. Why do you care? And what is it with all these biatches having therapists? She tells you something because her therapist told her so? Bro, try to get as far away from her as possible.
EndlessSavage 2y ago
Nah Im a lil short guy who looks like hes 15. I dont know what these chicks like about me.
Ya the therapist is sketchy. I mean she just treats me really well. She even writes me notes and cleans up after me lol.
Do you think i have to tell her in person or can i text her? Not like were actual boyfriend gf yet
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Tell her you are leaving in two weeks...
What the fuck is up with these insanely basic common sense questions today from everyone
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