I did some light research on this topic and so I know that for her to O, there are psychological and emotional elements in addition to the physical. My equipment checks out, and I'm already naturally a little dominant, but would like to become more dominant in the bedroom. I want her to be addicted to my sex. I'm willing to take my time in this regards and not rush the process.

I already like hair pulling, and telling them to switch positions. I'm bad at dirty talk, but I know being able to talk dirty to her while railing her would bring her closer to an O. I'm willing to learn and take things slowly.