So last night I had a plate sleep over. Got into a bit of an argument w my main chick blah blah blah.
My building has a passcode door lock to the lobby; (main chick knows this code). My anpt door also has a passcode lock (main chick doesn’t know it).
Plate left her shoes outside of my door; some new balances that 50:50 could pass as men’s shoes. While we were in bed in the morning; main chick pulled up. Saw the shoes starts bangin on the door for like 15min blowing my phone up.
Plate plays her role n keeps quiet; ab an hour after main chick left she left too.
Main chick stole my shoes and sends me a pic (I keep ‘em outside). I reply “HAHAHA” and said “I was on a swim you psycho”
She replies talking about send proof; who was at my place (bc she saw the other girl’s shoes).
I still haven’t responded yet. And she continued to message saying shit like “u better shop for some new shoes cause you’re never getting these back” blah blah blah.
So far game plan is this:
I’m gonna say my roommate’s boy came to visit and he spent the night and that the shoes were his (or some chick he brought over). And that I turned my phone off so I could concentrate on some work I needed to finish which is why I didn’t respond.
Think that’ll work?
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
Sounds like the main isn't worth the trouble
redpillretard 2y ago
A lot of bad advice here. Just keep your story simple and stick to it. I feel like having a lot of extra people involved is unnecessary, you could just say something like "must have been the maid I hired, idk"
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
You are in a psycho's frame. You need to lie to keep crazy pussy in your life?
Have some self respect
And stop giving your building code to chicks, what the actual fuck
financehardo420 2y ago
Crazy pussy hits different brah
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
You're willing to sacrifice your own self respect for that? How easy is it to find new pussy...or can you even live on your own with no hoes?
No disrespect dude you seem like a chill guy, but look at it from another perspective for your own long term sanity.
financehardo420 2y ago
I know y’all are right n in every aspect I should just kick her to the curb no hesitation. Buuut she’s the hottest chick on my roster rn and since I’m not going out till march im really not out and about bagging new chicks.
Can I live on my own without hoes? yes. do I want to live on my own w/o gettin my balls drained on a nightly basis? that’s a hard pass
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
She will lose respect for you the more you compromise, so you will lose her anyway to some Chad who gives less fucks. To be swayed by a woman's looks is the fall of man.
You'll hear of the most powerful politicians, bankers, business owners, and ancient conquerors fall to the same trap, thus allowing the woman to have full control. Imagine a woman can manipulate a man who's the head of a tribe, movement or empire with her pussy. Now she can control the whole empire lol. You can say I'm looking at it too deeply but look around and you'll see it's true.
Watch how she'll carrot on the stick her pussy, or your stuff, to get you to comply. It's a power game yet you've already banged. Who has the power now?
That's just my 2c but I genuinely wish u luck bro
PrisonnierDuGingoa 2y ago
Lmao that's just funny. But wtf did she just show up unannounced at your apartment? And when you say main chick is this an exclusive ltr?
financehardo420 2y ago
I guess she texted me @ 8am sayin hello; then said she’s coming over around 11. I was w other chick so wasn’t looking at my phone lmao n ye banged on my door for like a solid 15min n kept trying to open it.
She’s in a relationship with me and I’m single lmaooo. Jk jk it’s a bit complicated but ye she’s my main chick for sure lol
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
what's complicated? either you're in an exclusive relationship or you are not: this is critical information to have in order to formulate proper advice, i.e. you're not in an exclusive relationship and who stays at your place is none of her business, or you have in fact established exclusivity and now you need to formulate a convincing lie because you messed up.
financehardo420 2y ago
I may or may not have led her to believe there’s a chance of exclusivity tbh. But lie worked I’m chillin
Diabs 2y ago
I woulda just said something like "you know you're fav girl ;)" or some variation not admitting but not denying
Firstly she knows you never commited to her and secondly she came over un announced so you don't owe her a real explanation she might be mad just try and talk her down a bit while playing it cool I reckon she will come back. kinda a comfort test, girl would be a little invested if she is your main chick with your apartment code and it woulda just hurt her abit to think about you banging another slut.
financehardo420 2y ago
That’s prettty much exactly what she’s (correctly) assuming lmfao.
My lil white lie should work though; my roommate graduated n moved out she doesn’t have his contact and she doesn’t know his boy so no evidence lmao
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
The biggest lie is that women don't want you to have other women. Also, look at how the power dynamics are being played here dude.
A top dog doesn't give a fuck or hides his hoes. Yes I am the don, yes I have hoes. What do you expect? Don't like it? Ok you're free to leave.
This is why I never "sell them the dream". It just makes your life more stressed than it has to be. You got bigger things to focus on than female drama I assume, so I do my best to keep that at minimum & cut off bitches who think they're entitled.
financehardo420 2y ago
Not wrong at all lmfao.
Ig rn I’ve been going on a hard mode cut; no drinking no going to bars; early bedtime and early wake up time. Trying to do 75 hard rn.
So for me bagging new chicks not really gonna happen for another month or two; hence why I’m doin a bit more than I normally should
Hugo_The_Great 2y ago
Most women will hard pass being part of a rotation. Every girl's fantasy is to get the top dog who has all the women after him, yet he only chooses her. The bad boy that's sweet only to her.
Besides personality & values that were instilled as she was raised, also depends on where they're at in their life.
Still, plenty of women who are ok being part of a rotation knowingly or unknowingly, that's true. But to say that women WANT you to have other hoes is a lie.
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
Not a lie at all. Best way to feel special is to be chosen amongst all the other hoes. In evolutionary biology, it's called mate-choice copying. Here it's called pre-selection.
I've had women who KNEW for a fact that I was sleeping with other girls. It makes them all compete for your attention, with the ultimate validation being your dick.
Hugo_The_Great 2y ago
I understand the concepts of mate-choice copying/pre-selection.
What I'm saying is that having a harem is not going to score you any points with most women. What scores you points is being of high enough quality as a man that you COULD get a harem if you wanted to. You seem to be confusing correlation for causation.
The reason women choose to be part of rotations is that there is a lack of high quality men. Women would rather be with a high quality guy in a monogamous LTR than part of his rotation. That usually isn't an option if they're not valuable enough themselves, though.
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
Interesting point. I appreciate the discussion.
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
no, it absolutely will not work if she has an iq equaling room temperature degrees celsius. she knows you've been with another woman and is now shit-testing you on whether you'll cave in and resort to lying about it: you will oust yourself as someone that has 1) no balls to come clean, and 2) as someone that is so heavily invested in this relationship that she can feasibly throw temper tantrums to get you to behave unbecomingly. imo by lying you will sacrifice any standing in this relationship.
financehardo420 2y ago
Whelp she bought it lmaooo. Took a lil convincing but problem solved :D
ogrilla99 2y ago
Short term won the battle but you might end up losing the war.
Unless she's mentally retarded, she knows you had another woman in your apartment. If it was just your roommate and she was banging on the door that long, you would have opened it. And if you were out for a swim, that still wouldn't explain why your roommate wouldn't have opened the door himself to see what she wanted.
You might think she bought it, but what she really "bought" was knowing that you're willing to cave and lie and supplicate and comfort her when she throws a fit. That regardless of what other pussy you have on tap, hers is so good you're willing to do anything to keep it (which you've basically confirmed is true).
At any rate, if this is just a temporary thing and in a month or two you're planning to re-establish frame, then it may still work out. But don't be surprised if you notice an attitude change in her now, and/or if this relationship doesn't last (at least on the terms you want) for very long.
financehardo420 2y ago
We’ll have to see I guess. My roommate has moved out so it’s just me; I basically said his buddy came to visit and crashed here. he didn’t answer the door bc he came home insanely fucked up; I heard him eat shit on the ground when he was coming in at like 4am last night etc etc.
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Should probably not keep your shoes outside. You never know when a stray cat might come along and steal them.
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