They say happiness = Expectations-Reality, recently Ive found this to be true. I have lofty goals and high expectations of myself but when I look around im nowhere near my goals. Especially in regards to women . How do you find solace in the process of achieving your goals?
Ask TRP
Created By bambinosupremo
READ THE SIDEBAR BEFORE POSTING!
2.4K Members
Public Tribe
Unsubscribed
Ask TRP Sidebar
Original Reddit Red Pill sub (quarantine bypass) that contains the full original sidebar
Welcome To AskTRP
Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios.
Rule Zero of all TRP subreddits.
You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse.
Our comprehensive knowledge base is on the sidebar of our Parent Sub: /r/TheRedPill
New and not sure where to start? The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made Simple
Collected advice for newbies and beginners
Frequently AskTRP'd Questions
How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide
Plates! How do I define, choose, and maintain them?
Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk."
Dating: How to use dating sites, set a sexual frame, and utilize Push-Pull?
Should we cohabitate before marriage? TR;DR NO!
How to get laid like a WARLORD
What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them?
Older RPers, advice for young men starting out?
Red Pill general FAQ. 15 most common mistakes seen on AskTRP
In a hurry? Here are 20 Redpill FAQs with 1-line answers.
Red Pill Problem Solver
Got a stranger pregnant: a guide
Jealousy and games: Don't mate guard!
All-in-one Legal Guide: False rape/DV, Divorce, Child support etc
Identify and avoid BPD women Pt 1 Pt.2
Fitness and Self-Improvement
Our Build-A-Man workshop for becoming your best on the outside and inside
To the young man I saw at the gym last night
FR: Going to an event where you don't know anyone
Beyond passive/aggressive: Be ASSERTIVE
Red Pill Series Posts
Some of our best writers have written entire SERIES on topics of interest to TRP newcomers.
CorporateLand: Rat race survival guide
50 Shades of Red | 50 shades Redder | 50 more
Everything OmLaLa ever wrote
Rules
We've made this new place to help beginners and those with specific questions about game or handling specific parts of your life in a red pill context.
- Please no links, only text posts.
- Standard discourse rules from TRP apply
- Textwalls without paragraph breaks will be deleted without notice.
- Please be constructive, it's ok to make mistakes.
Avoid asking questions like "is this alpha" or "is this beta?" Instead focus on asking whether or not your actions were congruent with your goals.
A Note on Moderation
We are removing new posts from new accounts that are young or have little karma. If you want to ask a question, we suggest you spend some time lurking and entering into discussion first. Spend some time reading the /r/theredpill sidebar.
If you see a troll or problem post, don't engage them but use the REPORT link; this will bring it quickly to the attention of the mod team.
Red Pill WOMEN Portal
Attention Women, TRP is a male space so the content may seem shocking. Go to /r/redpillwomen to learn Red Pill theory from the female perspective.
Men: RedPillWomen is a female space where you're best off not posting. If you post and cause trouble there, it will follow you back here.
IRC Channel
servercentral.il.us.quakenet.org #theredpill
The Red Pill Network
/r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP
/r/thankTRP
/r/becomeaman
/r/altTRP
NorbertoDelude 1y ago
. Having access to that range within one system is a win.rice purity test
MikasaAckerman 1y ago
Personally, I find solace in the process of achieving my goals by shifting my focus from the end result to the Buckshot Roulette progress I make along the way.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
have the big goal in mind; set a series of smaller goals/tasks to benchmark it. You’ll get the feeling of accomplishment by achieving the smaller goals that build up to the big goal
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Wars are won one battle at a time. With your goal in mind, you fight this battle today. You fight the next battle tomorrow. You fight the battle after that the next day. Keep winning those smaller battles one at a time, and eventually they'll all add up to you winning the war.
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Bingo.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
The whole thing is a process, not a event. The most important thing is to aim at something aka have a goal, then literally start taking action until you achieve it.
Another one is be outcome independent, but give 100% in everything you do.
"Shoot for the Moon. Even if you miss, you'll land among the stars"
Women are lagging indicator of success.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
You should achieve your other goals and women will naturally follow