I'm from India and in the process of arranged marriage. There is one girl who seems excellent in all respects. However, she studied in the US and was there for several years. She has disclosed to me that she dated only 3 guys while there, which seems ok given that she was there for 6 years. She is back in India now. But I have some hesitation because of rumours I have heard about what some Indian women do in the US.
Based on your experiences do you think there is a high chance she rode the CC with white guys and now wants to settle down with an Indian?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
My one and only LTR i ever had was Indian (I'm white guy in USA) she born US and lived in India for her childhood until certain circumstances made them move back to US. I believe she married the only guy she ever fucked (I was too anxious to ever fuck her because she was insane and im very glad i didnt risk it).
She dated the only guy i think she ever actually fucked and lost her v card to for almost a decade and got married. But she also threatened to kill me once and was a massive pathological liar and psycho chick so I probably don't know the half of it. That's my only experience with an Indian chick. I haven't dated on that came from India, which is your question
Yeah, "dated". This doesn't include ONS, might or might not be euphemism for FWB, doesn't include flings. You're gonna have to let more time pass/get more trickle truth out of her. American US universities are progressive breeding grounds for sex positivity and sex freedom.
It's entirely possible she didn't casually fuck but if she was "dating" at all that means she was on the market. We don't know from what you've written if she was a hoe or only went on dates and fucked with intention.
6 years at a university and not doing casual sex as a woman with all the pressure to do so and free passes to do so strikes me as unlikely however
MovinCruisin 2y ago
Hope OP listens to this. If she wasn't a whore before, the sisterhood at uni possibly turned her into one. Girls aren't only allowed to openly hoe around there, they even encourage each other to do so.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
correct. It's not really a 'permissive' society, its more 'compulsory' to be a slut in USA. Being 'a popular girl' is actually being a slut. A popular girl is a girl that sleeps with all the chads. Being a 'dorky loser' is a girl that doesn't have sex with loads of guys.
The power of the female mind hive is frightening to behold. Women from very conservative backgrounds become super sluts when they get to USA/UK.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Not all Indian women go cock-crazy while here, but many of them do.
But how many has she fucked? Blown? Given handies? Given anal?
She might still be a virgin, but I doubt it. Do you have any way to vet her character?
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
No way to know for sure if she's lying, but more than likely women will omit the truth about body count/dating because they know the higher number makes them less viable for LTR, especially in conservative cultures such as India.
User4566 2y ago
I currently go to a pretty diverse college in the USA and all the Indian chicks I’ve seen are with Indian men just like most asian chicks are with asian men etc.
What school did she go to? I’d watch out if it was a party-heavy place.
Seagram7 2y ago
If you have to ask out loud, then you know there is something wrong. This is one of the few cases of "where there is smoke there is fire" saying is true. You know your community and the reputation and stories that get out where Indian girls go to a western country and go nuts. They are not rumors. Unless she was guarded by her parents and family members 24 hours a day, she got out and had her brains fucked out.
Not just immigrant girls, but girls that are away from home, away from family, away from her peers and most of all away from potential suitors where they will not be judged and they think nobody will ever find out is the perfect recipe for girls to feed their most feral based instincts of lust. An Indian girl can go to the other side of the planet away from everybody that knows her, especially future husbands, and fuck and suck their brains out; and the best part is who will know? After she is done getting every hole she has streched out...oops I mean getting her education, she has the added ease of the Indian community to find her a husband and arrange the marriage. She can now chameleon into a wholesome wife material girl THAT NEVER DID THAT!
This is the typical trope of Alpha Fux and Beta Bux. She goes away and fucks, Tyrone, Chad and Jose then after her party years and it's time to settle down she finds a Beta Bux to marry. You need to understand this: YOU ARE THE BETA BUX!!! Good luck with the starfish sex that you will get just to make babies. You will never experience her sexual best.
You were warned
Maybe @ogrilla99 can answer in more detail. He is Indian and he wrote a great post on Indian girls that ride the Carousal here in the west. His comments are in the linked post https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/321913/2nd_gen_immigrant_goes_nuts_and_rides_tyrone_now_she_is_ghos
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Ogrilla's commentary is always gold.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
I just re-read it now, and it is spot on.
We have a huge indian community here in London, and I know a few of them (have dated a few indian women in my time, and also had a couple of affairs with indian women).
The downside of a community that really molly coddles their young daughters is that they remain quite child like in young adulthood. I suspect this is exactly what has happened to this young woman. She has NO IDEA how to behave as an adult. She has remained 11 in her head. She wants this, wants that, and has no concept of consequences. I feel sorry for her parents. They have 'done everything' for their daughter, and she has dived into the ghetto.
I suspect the parents don't even know how this is going to pan out. She is not going to have much luck in 'americanized dating' either - nobody wants a washed up post wall Indian woman that got thrown off the CC with a bastard mulato. She is going to be single and dependent on her parents for the next 60 years.
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Yep. If she was in the US for 6 years and dated only 3 guys, chances are she's probably fucked 30.
If you want to remove all doubt, have her father take her to the doctor to confirm she's a virgin in both holes.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
If you ask her father to do that, you will 100% get a good result. Because father will pay the doctor. Think about it.
Invisible22M 2y ago
Thanks everyone. It does seem that even though she is good on paper, compared to many other women I've come across. But it doesn't seem to worth risking it. I don't want to find out later she was sucking dick like crazy or had plenty of ONS. So far my experience with girls who studied in India only has not been anything special, but probably the chances of them having crazy ONS is less. This girl may have just told about her LTR and skipped others in her bodycount.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
I would have thought that an admitted body count of 3 is very unlikely. There are girls from abroad that will totally not participate in the 'dating' scene while at college. They will have a bodycount of zero. But a bodycount of 3 is very unlikely ....if she was 'dating' its going to be much higher than that.
When a woman says 3, she means she had 3 boyfriends. That doesn't include all the guys she fucked while she was looking for a boyfriend, all the mistakes, the one night stands, the guys she fucked while she was a little drunk.
I've owned about 10 cars in my life...... but I've driven hundreds.
nicknack 2y ago
Indian girls in the US are either quiet girls usually only seen with Indian guys, or the entire college's population of white guys' town bike. Considering she literally moved back to India she doesnt seem like the 2nd type to be honest.