I know someone from a bodybuilding group who introduced me to RP in 2020.
Back then he said not all women are hoes.
Now he says that all women are hoes. He says that, based on his experiences to date, that he is 100% positive that all women cheat.
This is kind of where I often get anxiety and fear of missing out on learning experiences and I feel like I’ll just always be naive, because I’m not often in situations where I would be able to see if women are cheating (I don’t have friends and don’t hang around people in relationships, or anyone for that matter.)
So, because of this, I often get the feeling that I’ll never know if what he says is true or not, because I’m not in these scenarios and don’t have these experiences.
So, to those who have a more active social life and have been around many people, do you think that all (or a very high percentage) of women cheat, or is this just some kind of coping mechanism that this guy has? Back in 2020 he said that the majority of women would cheat in the right circumstances, and now he is saying that all women cheat at least once a year, or at some point if not once a year.
lurkerhasarisen 1 1y ago
The short answer is no, but it brings up a concept that's been nagging at me for a while.
What is the precise definition of the word, "cheat?"
If you are not married or engaged, it's not cheating. The exception is if you have promised exclusivity... which you should only do if you're well on the way toward engagement (if you're into that sort of thing).
On three separate occasions I went out with girls while I was dating different girls, and I didn't consider it to be "cheating." In the final analysis, you're either married or you're not, with "engaged" being the point at which exclusivity is implied if it has not been previously explicitly established. Expecting exclusivity without any of that is a covert contract, and covert contracts suck.
I was seriously dating a woman when I met my wife, in fact. I dated both of them for a week or two before I dumped my "girlfriend."
It's hard to discuss your question unless we all agree on the point at which "seeing other people" becomes "cheating."
Seagram7 1y ago
AWALT. I really believe that with the right time, place, amount of alcohol, level of horniness, where her self esteem is at, her amount slut friends around; That even the goody good Mormon church girl will cheat. They will lean more to the bad decision than the right decision. Remember that feels are reals and women exist in that emotional moment. It is so much easier to go with the lust than think things through to the end.
Does that mean all women cheat? Of course not. Will all women cheat given the right circumstances? Of course they will.
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
All women WANT to cheat. Just as all men do.
The answer is nuanced. Do they have any self control? Are they afraid of the consequences?
It's hard to get a true picture of what is happening inside the average marriage, but the research that I have seen (plus anecdotal evidence) points to the fact that women are not really into married sex. It's women that go off sex within a marriage / LTR, not men.
Women are novelty seekers. This is why womens fashion makes 10x what mens fashion makes. Men are quite happy with their favourite shoes, suit, pullover, coat. They will wear it until the items are worn out. Now think about how women buy clothes. The often don't even take the labels off - as soon as they have it, they want something new. The sercret of retail is to mens clothes on the top floor or the basement - because the money is in womens clothes.
Women used to fear the consequences of giving in to their desire for strange cock. The penalties in the middle ages were harsh. In many cultures, women would have their eyes put out with red hot pokers or a horseshoe. Some would be banished (a certain death sentence). In many cases, the village would just declare them 'a witch' and burn them to death.
now, if a woman gets bored of her husband, she just files for divorce, gets the house, the kids and a 20 year income stream worth probably more than the house, and everybody 'celebrates her journey'.
So, yeah, they all cheat. Which explains why men are MGTOW and population is declining (if you net off the hoardes of muslim invaders).
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ObliviousDuck 1y ago
I asked my girlfriend and she said she would never cheat on me. So the answer is no.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
read the sidebar bro
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
EPIC BURN!!!
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I still clap more cheeks
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I’ve fucked like 2 or 3 milfs in my life? Currently have a milf and then rest of roster is early 20yo chicks lol.
gotta wait till January for more appts bc of insurance till I can see me pt milfy. Chill
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I didn’t see the delete lmao
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Lmao you’re good broski
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
now why don't you both get a room and have some great make up sex.
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Blingo123 1y ago
Not if the guy is high status and progressing in life. And even then they still might.
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
personally i think that if a woman has access to a man that has higher SMV than you, and if that man finds said woman attractive, then she is going to cheat at some point. i believe that most men in relationships are oblivious to the woman cheating; i believe we don't give women enough credit for their ability to cover their tracks. i think women's infidelity is only ever found out if the woman has totally stopped caring about maintaining the relationship with her boyfriend/husband.
User4566 1y ago
I’ll go out on a whim and say not all women cheat. Not every girl is on Tinder. Not every girl goes to bars. Not every girl posts provocative pictures on the gram.
But they’re still human and they’re not perfect little angels. Just like many of us.
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User4566 1y ago
Same goes for men. They’re in a relationship with a sweet girl but they might cheat if some 9/10 starts feeling them up on guys night out. They’re only human, some of them think with their dicks instead of realizing that they shouldn’t cheat on someone they’re happy with. I never condone cheating, yet I don’t trust people to have a stable relationship with since the introduction of social media so I try to avoid them altogether for the sake of my sanity.
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Dxmx99 1y ago
The answer isn't yes or no, it's a matter of ifs. If ol' boy isn't cutting it, not satisfying hypergamy, not creating tingles, the likelier the chance.
"Hypergamy isn't a straight jacket." But at the end of the day, it can possibly fuck you up.
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Dxmx99 1y ago
Repeated experiences create relations in the mind. He sees a good chunk of girls he's fucked are cheating wives, but he hasn't fucked the wives that haven't cheated.
I've fucked girlfriend's. I've fucked up an engagement or two myself. Beyond those points I've seeked companionship myself. At this time, not so much. I'm better off without monogamy.
The pattern I've seen with those girls are that they have traumas, BPD, other things that affect them mentally and emotionally. They become far more impulsive and far less careless of hurting others feelings.
At its core, Red pill isn't "all women are hoes bro" it's the answer to the abuse of what feminism should be, the abuse against males primarily in the west.
The entire female sex can't be summed up into "All these girls hoes", that's like summing up all men as "All these men ain't shit". There's some good people out there.
One thing I've learned to not worry about is cheating, whether or not a girlfriend is cheating. If anything, she should be the one worried.
The game stuff just enriches Red pill and shows us how we should treat women for our own gain, not theirs - example: Disney princess, save the damsel and devote yourself to her so she'll love you type shit. The many ways we're tricked into thinking like beta chimps while women are chasing and desiring what's actually sexy.
So don't let your friend define Red pill for your, a big part of this is independence and thinking for yourself.
If you want to see less cheating women in your life, then avoid bars, avoid clubs, ask women about their vices and quirks, and only flirt with single women.
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lurkerhasarisen 1 1y ago
LOL. That should be obvious: we disagree with each other all the time. With the exception of Where Are All The Good Men (subreddit and tribe) with our NO Shaming Men For Any Reason rule that we mods ruthlessly enforce, EVERY redpill space turns into a circular firing squad.
Some people cheat. Some people don't. Women are people. Vet carefully, and be aware that people who avoid temptation are less likely to give in to it.