Hey All,

Its been a minute since I posted about 3 years ago actually. During that time I've managed to get myself a solid career and moved out on my own. I'm in a new city due to my career now and have made friends with coworkers. Work takes up the majority of my time, however I have been meeting women, not nearly enough to my liking..

I come to you all to seek advice as I have been trying to become more "redpill" so to speak and become more of a man all around. However my situation is slightly weird and I truly do not know if ive developed a slight case of oneitis or not.

I should probably say that ive already broken one of the worst rules to break in my opinion and that is sleeping with a coworker.. up until now i've never done it. However I went my entire year (on probation) grinding focusing and even getting a pay raise and assigned spot due to me busting my ass. In fact I never saw this girl really other than when we swapped shifts.. I probably said 10-15 words to her the entire year due to how infrequently I saw her.

Approximately a month ago she sent me a friend request on instagram and i didnt really think anything of it. I woke up the next morning ( i was in arizona playing with my works soccer team) and in my instagram inbox she messaged me something to the effect of "i didnt know you play soccer!" so we end up talking back and forth and after 5 messages I set up drinks with her and she agrees to meet when I get back.

I get back home a couple days later we meet for drinks, take her back to my place, heavily making out and she says something like " i have to go" I just tell her something like no problem walk her out kiss her and shes gone.

3 days go by and I ultimately set up another date, we go out come back to my place and then entire time we are making out , im rubbing her thigh, she is telling me "youre not going to fuck me" "im going to make you wait till the 3rd date etc" I just respond " thats unfortunate there probably wont be a third date".. 10-15 minutes go by of this back and forth.. I end up picking her up go to my bed room toss her on the bed and fuck her. She leaves texts me when she home and another 3 days go by no word from her, I text her and she replies instantly agrees to meet for another drink.

we end up fucking again on the third date but this time its better, i give her multiple orgasms etc, im calling her a slut pulling her hair doing everything i personally know how to do (by no means am i an expert). leaves again goes home texts me and I just say something like cool! i had fun.

same thing 3 days go by no texts its thanksgiving morning at this point and I shoot her a text "what are you doing tonight, i want to see you" she responded with something like " I have festivities silly" and I said something like "come over after youre done with your parties" she ends up saying something like "ill see" she texts me midday "ill come over at 11" she gets to my place with a plate of food, we talk, fuck and I end up eating and she spends the night .. however during this i found out a coworker of mine slid into her inbox on instagram and they met up for a drink she tells me "his cousins were there it was awkward" "nothing happened, but after a couple times i tried to reach out but he ignored me and is just weird so fuck that i stopped trying to be cool with him" I just told her thats cool you should try to hit him up again.

2 days go by I text her when she's off work to come over (as of now her schedule is from 3pm-3am and mine is 6pm - 6am.. we only get one day to see each other...)

she messages me the day before meeting " do you want me to come over im on my period" I responded with " dont worry i have towels" she says " freaky i like that"...

The day of meeting she messages me an hour prior "my back hurts and im nauseous" and i reply "from your period" and she says "from my back being blown out" .. I said something like "I cant really relate im usually on the opposite end". She said she thinks its due to her pants being to tight and her period a combination of both (she is not fat by the way, shes like a hb 7.2). I responded with "hats off to the dude that's taking you down like that, tell him to record next time" she said "really tho you made me super sore last time im not gonna lie".. ultimately she ends up trying to cancel as she says shes in too much pain and I replied "No worries, maybe another time". She says something like " i really wanted to see you" etc.. so i call her by her full name and she says "eww dont use my full name" and i respond with "why? its quite a cute name." she instantly replies and says " i feel better i can come over".. I accept and she comes over and I fuck her in the shower once when she gets here and we go to sleep wake up and fuck again spitting in her mouth have her sucking my dick etc..

she leaves before I go to work and texts me when she gets home etc.. we send like 10 texts back and forth.. and that brings me to today.. she is a bisexual girl claims she usually only fucks when she is in relationships and on multiple accounts has told me she isnt a "floosey" and I have the wrong idea about her ( she says this because I will sometimes say she is trouble etc or tease her for being a slut) however from what I know about her she has been with one dude for a year who was also at our work before he quit and he dumped her because word on the street she was out partying and getting drunk and sloppy etc.. her second relationship was with some girl who she ended up cheating on and went back to the guy she was with.. in fact the 1st time we fucked she mentioned how she saw him a couple months prior.. which i just said "cool".

I want your guys advice, have I been chasing? I feel almost disrespected as she tells me the guy who she hung out with and his cousin she reached out and tried to set shit up, but she never did that for me.. in fact i know i shouldn't care but its definitely a pride thing... my second thing is based of my experience there is no way a girl who has been with a low count is riding dick where she can make me cum (like she has) and lets me degrade her and spit in her mouth choke her etc...

I know im not talking to nearly enough chicks and this wouldnt be an issue if I was.. I just want some answer I guess if im overchasing.. I also want to note after the 3rd time I fucked her I went out the next day and fucked a hb 7.5 who was on a road trip and lives 4 hours away from me.. this girl has texted me every single day and craves my attention. in fact she bought a train ticket to come hangout this saturday.. everything ive heard about my coworker was she was clingy etc.. but she is the exact opposite the girl i met on roadtrip who i had ONS cannot get enough of me.. my coworker is 25 and the girl on the roadtrip is 29... im 28... sorry for this long ass post.. just looking for answers and hoping you guys can clarify the whole chasing aspect.. would also be cool to hear about N count and to know if im trippin about thinking she isnt as innocent as she seems