Matched with HB8 on Bumble (this sunday)
Me: I want to do bad things to you
Her: Like what?
Me: Pull your hair. Bite your neck. Slap your ass. For starters...
Her: I like it :) But like more aggressive things too
Eventually, I tried to close...
Me: What's your number
Her: You're cold now (I thought this was a rejection)
Her (45 mins later): ? (realized she was asking if I was cold, meaning she wants to come over)
Problem is I'm temporarily staying with family (quit job, trying to launch a startup)
I try to setup logistics near hers (but we're also talking dirty af)
I turn up the heat (with voice msgs of how I'll punish her)
She goes ".... oh my god" (and starts sending me nudes)
Her: Can I hear you again?
Me: Ask me.
Her: Will you let me hear you again daddy? Please.
Me: Ask me again. Beg me bitch.
Her: Fuck... Please (my name).
Me: Give me your number and I'll send you a voice.
She does. We sext. After some more nudes I say:
"Good girl. Goodnight little whore"
She responds further (but I leave her on read).
The next day (afternoon):
Her: So you're just gonna ignore me? Screw you. Bye. (she also deleted all her previous msgs)
Me (voice): When you talk to me like that, it only makes me want to punish you harder
Her: Well I'm actually free tonight. And just found your replacement. Kiss
I keep my cool (and just react to her msg with a kiss emoji)
A few hours later, she deletes all her msgs again (lol)
At first, I thought of letting her hamster spin.
But tbh, I was scared she was too pissed off and would block me. So later that night (yesterday), I sent:
Me: I want to feel your legs shake, while you leak on the floor and moan my name
No response so far. How to proceed?
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
You should have cut straight to logistics - as in 'I'm coming over to your place - you naught girl - send me a location pin'
anon1234 1y ago
She lives with her parents.
What should I do now?
I do have a lot of money saved up (so could get a Hotel/Airbnb for a while no problem)
redhawkes 2 1y ago
Take the L, you stepped on your own dick. The worst thing you can do now is to double text.
OLD hoes are used to non stop attention from simps. Rejection is her ego death.
This is why there's no such a thing as "text game", especially when you don't know what you're doing. The only goal is to setup logistics.
Lmaoo, what an obvious beta bait and you failed. Bratty/subby hoes will do shit like this to get a reaction from you and make you more dominant/aggressive.
Also, don't punish good behavior. Leave them on read when they misbehave and when they reject your frame.
I had the same happened couple of years ago, setup logistics, was late at night and left her on read. Next morning she bitched that I left her on read and won't meet me. Left on read and deleted her.
You also gave her too much attention/validation over text and it probably lowered her interest.
You can text her in a week or two some non sequitur, but definitely don't double text her now.
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Nailed it right here.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I agree with your post except for that there is no such thing as text game.
Text game exists, I use my own style of it constantly. The problem is you have to use it correctly to plant seeds, set premises, and bait women into inviting themselves to do fun shit with you. There are plenty of times I have converted numbers into dates and plans with chicks I barely have spoken to before because I text methodically and with purpose.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
Text game is the skill/ability to not step on your own dick over text, while setting up a meeting.
The key here is calibration. OP fucked it up by overgaming, then scarcity hit up.
By the cringe I've seen here, less than 10% know how to text these hoes. The most important thing is no to let your autism shine. The 3/4 rule and teasing are just finesse. Be unpredictable instead of calculating when to reply.
After the nudes and dirty talk, how fucking hard is to text her : "let's meet tomorrow, I'll text you the details." It also gives you the plausible deniability to confirm, without looking thirsty.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I completely agree.
10% of men, if even, can properly apply text game. 90% of men need to just text for logistics because of stuff like this. Yeah OP should have just closed.
So many guys on here won't close because they don't have their own place and they need to fix that ASAP
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Overreaction, she's mentally ill.
Ok, NEXT.
Dude, she found someone else in the 20 minutes you weren't talking to her.
NEXT.
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
there's your problem right there
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
then what? If she ignored the question, she had no intention of meeting up anyway so you lost nothing here. I would've cut it right here, fuck the sexting. Are you here to text or to fuck dude?
Regardless, that last text wasn't necessary. You bruised her ego & now she's trying to play weird games making you feel like you missed out on something, hence the mention of replacement. Bit childish on her part.
Never chase her after shitt like that. You're always the prize.
Move things to meeting up faster & don't over extend the texting.