So a girl suddenly responds more slow, etc
You want to ghost her, but should you also delete (so not block) her?
Or should you risk eventually being deleted by her? I guess if she does so, she like… walked over you so will respect you a lot less if you end up speaking to her after that again, is this true?
So in short: what should you do? I think deleting her, just making sure
Thanks
sad_sleeper 1y ago
Honestly just mute her and put her on restrict. I asked a girl out last week: leta go to the Christmas market on saturday at 7? She left me on seen and saturday comes by, I check again: Are we going to see each other at 7 ?
And then she starts rumbling how I didn’t asked her properly. In which I replied well if you wanted to come out with me, it wouldn’t have mattered how I asked you.
Gilles 1y ago
I'm personally not a fan of the block and delete style. It just comes off as butthurt and lack of frame. Just let the convo fizzle out and find new leads. Imagine you were trying to seduce a 4, and she wasn't down. Would you really care enough about her to block and delete her? I would probably just forget about her in a few days time. This is the mindset you need to acquire with hot women. You give away all your power by caring so much
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
100% on social media, but no need to block unless it's a toxic ex harassing you or blatant disrespect.
Unfollowing women who are only trying to get validation/not trying to meet up when the motive has been established = unfollow.
Doesn't matter if it comes off butthurt or whatever.
If she ain't with the program it's on to the next
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Dude reread this till your eyes bleed.
If she's deleting you she has no interest. Next. New women
I have caller ID so even when i delete hoes from my phone I know who they are if they call back
miserabletogreat 1y ago
Hahaha I get it
A friend once said that if she deletes you, you can like.. speak to her again in the future
And if you delete her, it’s weird to randomly pop up in her life again or something
But as I am writing this I am fully aware thay thinking like this is caused by having a scarcity mindset, right?
Anyways, I get it if she deletes me she has no interest in me, but her not responding as usual or taking much longer to respond also indicates she has no interest in me and it would be better for me to delete her before she eventually deletes me, no? And not care about the small chance that she’ll randomly become interested again while still having her on social media?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Bro this scarcity paragraph hurts to read, have some self respect and get options
miserabletogreat 1y ago
Thank you!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
You're welcome!
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
GOOD LORD HEAVENS ABOVE....this is retarded.
Are you in 8th grade? What does it matter who deletes how? The fact that you are asking this question makes you sound like a lady.
You should NOT be spending time on questions of who deletes who first, and which is better and respect etc etc etc. You should be sorting and filtering all your prospects into 'will bang' and 'will not bang'. If she is in the 'will not bang' then move on to the next one asap.
Good lord.
nicknack 1y ago
Never ever block. I’ve had girls hit me up 2 months later at midnight to smash, after I thought the vibe burned to the ground.. you can also always hit her up after a month and smash even though things went to shit. This is like sales, never drop a lead
miserabletogreat 1y ago
What if you have them on a platform like Snapchat
You first have to add each other, and if you've added each other one can delete the other one so now you're not "friends"
Do you think it's okay to delete her, so not block (cuz it also signs her you got a bit emontional or something, no?) her once she starts replying late etc
That's what I thought to, "never drop a lead" but I mean it's pretty pathetic to not want to delete a girl because there might be a small chance things will turn around while she keeps replying late, and ignores you, etc
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
is this relevant only to girls that you've had sex with before, or can girls that you've only been on a date with (and haven't smashed) also come around later on?
nicknack 1y ago
These are ones that I never smashed. They end up hitting you up a month later after they’ve had a few drinks and feel lonely (maybe even went on a nice first date and want to end the night with a shag).
Or even more randomly super early in the morning sometimes.