this girl ive been trying to schedule a date for the past week has been so busy, coming up with any excuse to postpone going out
she said she might be able to have drinks tonight (i never responded and made other plans) then double texts me and doesnt even have an excuse to not meet, shes just tired from work
so even when i dont entertain this hoe and move on she still has to come out on top and be the one to "cancel" the date
are womens egos this fragile that they cant handle a guy no longer being interested even though they make it impossible?
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
are womens egos this fragile that they cant handle a guy no longer being interested even though they make it impossible?
YES
Also, if she's cancelling dates why are you playing in to her games? Let her go, a girl who's truly down to see you won't make it this hard
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Basically yes.
Try once...... maybe twice...... after that you let her do the chasing and arranging. Women know what's up..... they know if they cancel twice that quality guys won't stick around, so you back off and let them do the chasing.
It's tricky....... women will give you the run around as they prioritise themselves above all else..... but also I've had it work out after a long period of back and forth.
So the trick is to step back and take her less seriously and response less quickly after each fuck up on her end so that she can feel that you're moving away.
Any shit like you're getting, just ignore her.