I'm 25, I have a 3 yo relationship. Lately a girl texted me and she got sexual pretty fast, she looks hot. She wants to come over this week. But now thinking about it and getting to actually fuck this girl, I feel like in a dark place and I feel like I want to cancel the date. it's not that I'm thinking about my relationship, I don't really care that much, but I still can't find the source of this sad feeling. FYI I've only cheated on my gf only once at the beginning. I'm thinking that I just fell in this comfort zone of only talking to my gf and I get an odd feeling to fuck sb new. Did u guys had the same feeling?
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Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
I understand you. A lot of life is depressing. It's depressing to find out that life is not how you want it to be, how you thought it was when you were young.
I've often thought that cheating is sordid, depressing and lonely. It makes a man cynical. It doesn't matter if you are cheating on your partner, or banging some girl that is cheating on her husband. It makes your realise that everyone is just in it for themselves.
I remember having a drink with a buddy ages ago, in a pub in London. And two women from Norway came over and asked me to take their picture, which I did for them. Then they sat down at our table, and it dawned on me, they wanted to smash. They were obviously two besties, about mid 30s, clearly married, over in London for a mini break. And they didn't want to let their hotel rooms 'go to waste'. They were both great looking. But I just couldn't do it. It's too depressing to think of some poor guy back in Norway, looking after the kids, sending these women nice little text messages. It was almost sweet the way the women were so crap at game, how out of practice they were. We chatted for about 10 mins then made our excuses and left. I guarantee you they just moved onto the next guys. It's not very difficult to find a guy to smash with if you're a nice looking milf.
Standards, my dude. You need standards in your life. And meaning. Go find it.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Gee i wonder why this would make you feel depressed
quick2g 1y ago
I've had moments during the relationship where I would be drunk around other girls and being touchy with them, but there was never a good place to go more intimate with them. I never felt any remorse after. It was never problem for me. But now that I gotta prepare, text and all the bullshit that I haven't done in the last 2.5 years, I've got this feeling. I feel like I would feel the same even if I break up with my gf. Comfort zone?
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
I used to relentlessly cheat on my girlfriend, and not give a fuck every time she caught me. She eventually couldn't take it anymore and left. Now she still tries to contact me despite having a new boyfriend, among other things that show attachment.
Women only respect the men they know can leave them/have other women. You getting depressed is weird because cheating normally comes from a place of not respecting the other person.
aweawea_ 1y ago
Just tell yourself you are roleplaying as a dark triad and you are just acting upon your nature, but i mean, if you really want to do it, all you should feel is excitement because you are about to have hella fun and if you are not, then you should keep self-reflecting and try to figure out what it is that is causing you to feel that way, but you can get over it and start doing what you want.
Hexye 1y ago
bro if there is a hell you going straight there lmaooooooooo
quick2g 1y ago
most probably. But I was never really attached to a person, girlfriends or friends. I've got and kept the relationship because at 22 I had shit to do, so I decided to stick to one girl, and I'm pretty good with it, tho I still feel free. I know it's shitty, I can't defend it.