Hello
A weird question but after browsing through the material I've picked up that you shouldn't give a girl too much attention, or even not give a girl attention at all if she hasn't earned it
I've noticed I am bringing it to an absurd level, like when a girl ask me if X looks good on her I never say yes, I automatically say no
In my opinion this can't be good, no?
Or if a girl tries to hint us being together, I most of the time ignore or act like that won't be the case, while it could be a good way to turn off her ASD, no?
Where do you cross the line? And until where can you go?
Thanks
NorbertoDelude 2y ago
I would love any advice to figure how to fix this and snaptik?
MikasaAckerman 2y ago
In order to attract a girl's attention. You should treat her with respect, pokedoku even if you're not interested in her romantically.
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Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
My golden rule is that its fine to give plenty of compliments, as long as she doesn't believe them. As always, insincerity is the key.
Gilles 2y ago
Second this.conly give compliments if you genuinely mean it. Complimenting to get her validation is simping
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
Sound like you have totally got the wrong end of the stick, have misunderstood what I wrote. Read it again.
I said "It's fine to give plenty of compliments, as long as she DOESN'T believe you. As always, INSINCERITY is the key"
I am saying that its ok to give compliments, as long as you DON'T mean them.
Example: It's a total power move to lean into a girls space (maybe after you've fucked her and are about to leave) and whisper 'You're the most beautiful girl in London / NY / LA", then give her a wink and a smile and leave. As long as she doesn't believe you, you're golden. You'll be living in her head rent free. She WANTS to believe it, but she can't. She''ll be thinking:
"Did he mean that? And what did the wink mean? Why hasn't he called? I bet he says that to all the girls. Maybe he's fucking some other girl right now, and saying that same line to her? He's such a smooth talker, I bet he's like banging 4 girls a week, what am I to him? Why are my panties so wet? Why did he smile when he was saying it? Why am I only thinking about him and no other man? And why did he say, the most beautiful in London...surely he could have said 'in the world' - who else is he thinking of?"
But if you said the exact same line, and she did believe you, she would be dry retching. Because she would assume that you are obsessed with her, which is a 100% cast iron guarantee of beta. It would also mean that she would be sure you are not banging other chicks, which will give her sahara panties.
Insincerity is what they want. They absolutely lust after insincerity. It's the magic ingredient.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Unless you look God-tier or are a contextual alpha at the minimum, or just happen to be her tyoe and you did something to pique her motivation to approach or ask you a question, and women just fling themselves at you, then you need to approach them and show enough interest that they don't think you're just a friend at the very least
That being said this guy would explain it more thoroughly than me
And this guy, too
nicknack 2y ago
I compliment indirectly.
Think “You must have gotten that jacket when you went to Italy this summer, it looks stylish”
I try to incorporate it in conversation. Not too often that it becomes noticeable. I notice that chicks below my smv compliment me a lot and the same is probably true tenfold for women so you can’t come across as lower value than her.