Some are natural, just born with it, handsome/athletic, from day one its been on easy mode ; but I'd still love to hear from you guys too.
When I mean abundant, I mean life is pretty fucking good. You just don't care. You see something interesting, fun, challenging to be done every single day. When something doesn't go your way, yet you shrug your shoulders and roll your sleeves up, that type of mindset.
Was there a moment, time, how you react to a certain scenario that you realised you didn't give a fuck/found abundance?
I am not there, but if 10 was abundance, I'd say my life is a 7.8 right now. Things that you used to stress me out or give me anxiety - I am now excited to tackle these things or at least trying to learn from them. And I think it is because I am living (mostly) true to myself.
I am eating well, exercising, having a lot of fun (with people who get me) no time for drama/bitching at work, if we have a problem lets discuss it. And trying to do something enjoyable at least once a day.
Now focusing on finance, career, reading etc ; and every day I am finding something worth while to do
And women (I have no time for the ones who bring nonsense/bitching) yet smiles, IOIS, touching , bending/standing so close etc. I have never had this much in so long and I am 40. I'm physically older and uglier, tbh yet its like women can somehow smell confidence (I am fapping once a week ; been reading all the bro-science about women sensing your loaded gun, haha, I'm almost starting to believe it).
I found TRP a year ago, I cannot believe how much a positive influence it has been in my life. I am more independent, stronger, and tbh, a better person - I don't take shit anymore (nor do I go looking for it). I don't fake it either, if we are talking about something I don't understand or have a completely different political opinion to the group I am with ; I'll say what I feel. If something is unfunny, I'll not fake it either, I used to just fake smile before all this.
Anyone still struggling with TRP, get it swallowed, and the more you overcome fears, the happier you will be - because you are living YOUR life.
When you have to pretend and let's be honest, that's what most betas are doing - they subdue to their feelings, sexuality. Once you hit 30, you'll realise how many men in their 30s/40s/50s are utterly MISERABLE.
Eat well. Lift/exercise. Write down all your fears and aspirations - and start working on overcoming them all.
I'd love to hear if there was a specific moment, you thought to yourself ; you know what, I am pretty, pretty happy with my life. There's still work to do, but the challenge in overcoming all these hurdles is really pushing me on to get there.

Dxmx99 2y ago
I didn't really achieve it until I had a couple girls going at once. Every other day I was banging thing 1 and then thing 2. Sometimes back to back, sometimes in the same day. They loved to fuck.
I got worn out from that and the other plate left for college and the other one became my girlfriend.
I realized I still had abundance in mind when I was dating her as I generally didn't give a shit about out comes. Everything worked for me until it didn't and we broke up. (I posted about that here.)
It clicked afterwards that even though I don't have a steady rotation, I can shot gun blast my way through life and fuck girls. I see girl, I ask fuck. I see other girl, I ask for fuck. Maybe I see them again, maybe I don't.
For me, obtaining an understanding of abundance didn't correlate directly to having multiple plates getting boomerang'd but it's come from the idea that there's girls I can fuck if I go for it, and the fact that I do not need women around me. It's a pleasure but it's not an absolute. I can go pick one out today and probably bang her tomorrow, but no doubt I would spending my day going through a few girls until I met one who wants to smash asap.
I also have formula that helps me get the lays and I can trust in myself to know what I'm doing, usually. But having abundance also means I can say and do almost anything I want because I don't care.
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
After a mental breakdown a few years ago, pulling myself out from hell basically produced the abundance mentality. I realized I can conquer anything if I came from a place I thought I couldn't come out from.
Life's good man, and I'm confident ill handle anything thrown at me.
BuckMulligan 2y ago
It was a few years ago.
I was NOT a popular kid. Loud personality but made some "questionable" style choices, haha.
But eventually I got the ball rolling. I'd become aware of a lot of the TRP patterns we now are aware of, and TRP gave me a really tangible way to wrap my ahead around what had originally been abstract concepts and baseline pattern recognition.
Anyways, middle middle middle...
I got to a point with my self growth that my average number of current spinning plates was between 6 and 10 at any given time and they ALL knew about each other. I was always bluntly honest, and all it did was make them try even harder to be my "one". Then I met I girl I really liked who was my niche 10 and I've been with her for years now. She gets off haaard on watching me bring girls home for us, and we always have a good time with our "new friends". She's very submissive, very loyal and is absolutely obsessed with me. We're also best friends, so that's awesome.
Then one day it just kinda hit me. Young, good notch count (and growing), decent income, endless buffet of pussy, I live in a cool place, got good friends, take good care of myself, all that stuff. I did it.
Feels good, man. Especially because it was earned. It wasn't always this great, and I know one day, even this will come to an end. But it's fucking golden while it's here.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
When i realized that even if i didn't get laid a month after i lost my one and only option that another one would take her place and that if I just ran the same exact formula or at least some variation of game that I'm gauranteed a lay simply by virtue of number of approaches.
Then when I started turning down gauranteed pussy because I was too picky for them and frienzoned women out the ass because I know women want to fuck me and if i just do xyz a reliable percentage of women will + I know how to filter for easy lays if need be i just don't like to
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EurasianChad 1 2y ago
I don't know how dudes get so attached to the outcome now adays. Like it somehow defines their value in even their own eyes. Truly a sad sight
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