Not being able to make your own choices is NOT manly, I know, but still
I've never had a youth, I used to walk for 7-8-9 hours a day because I missed social interaction with anyone, I literally didn't speak to anyone and this made me almost become a lunatic, where you had these young guys drive in nice cars (even though they rented them for a week, a day, or whatever) they still made great memories (fucked girls in the said cars, brought them to hotels and fucked them, and so on)
Yes, not very wise choices money-wise, you can fuck in a park too blabla, but the key point I want to point out is that in 20 years they will have those nice memories
And I? I didn't do jack shit, I wasted those years, I broke down when I walked past crowded squares in the evenings where people were enjoying their time TOGETHER, laughing TOGETHER, eating TOGETHER, getting an ice cream TOGETHER and so on, I literally felt high in my head and it felt like I could fall to the ground anytime because I was really broken
Anyways, I don't even know why I am telling that while the title is "Should I buy a bike" I just haven't had anyone that I could say it to lol
So the bike is like 10 grand, I am a student and living at home, it's not a very wise choice, I am aware of that but I would like to have your opinion on it, I will not have a lot anymore if I buy the bike
At least I can have some memories of me having this awesome bike instead of not spending the money on anything (saving it, until I get hit by a truck and die without ever having enjoyed the money)
Would you say fuck it too and do it anyways?
Ive never made such a choice and it feels weird to do so, that's why I am asking you guys
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
" it's not a very wise choice, I am aware of that but I would like to have your opinion on it, "
You know yourself what the answer is man.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
What the fuck?
If you're fucking mad keen on bikes, spend a grand and keep the other 9.
10k on a bike is for elite athletes with money to burn
Look at this another way:
You can have a lot of fun and make a lot of improvements to your life with 9k. Going from 1 to 10 k on a bike is a tiny improvement. Spend the money elsewhere and maximise your life results.
ncstaterepted 2y ago
Agreed. my first bike was a suzuki boulevard s40 650cc (new name for suzuki savage) for $1,700 (used). Second bike My dad told me he'd pay up to $6k on a bike for me so we could ride. He wanted me to get this harley for $5.5k and I'd need to put bags, boards, windscreen, electric all on it. Other one was a yamaha vstar 1300 for $1,500 with 50k miles on it. It had boards, chargers, wind screen, sissy bar, back seat, saddle bags, all included. I love riding that bike. Nice and huge for me. I watched my dad drop his brand new harley a few times. He asked me if he could ride mine so he won't be afraid to drop his new one again.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Oh...... thought it was pushbike.
That's a bit different, but still excessive if it's your last/only 10k.
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Goingthedistance 2y ago
If we are talking about a motorcycle, please do NOT buy a brand new bike for your first. You can find a lot of good used bikes, for example for under 2 grand you can get the Suzuki SV650 which is a great starter bike and has a great sound. Take it easy bro and remember, you need protective gear more than everything else.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
100% agree - do NOT buy a brand new bike and do not buy a fast bike.
You will 100% certainty drop your first bike. And you will also crash it.
Buy yourself a 125cc as a first bike. Ideally second hand. For my first bike, I bought one that had already been dropped. Was very cheap! (its only scratches).
JamesSkepp Moderator 2y ago
Buy a used bike, buy a light bike, don't buy anything dirt related. You want an easy to learn one, cheap one, make sure you have enough left for helmet protective clothes, good ones b/c they will save you a trip to ER, don't skimp on these. As they say you dress for the slide not for the ride - and you are going to slide if it's your first one, hence the gear and the cheap used bike. Take someone who already owns a bike, preferably for more than 5-10y so you don't get scammed and get good advice. If you want the bike for girls, and girls do like bikers (do you want to be one? or at least look like one? do you have the attitude?), buy something choppery-looking but still light. Do not buy anything for speed, fast driving, the Hayabusas and such - you'll die or become a cripple, this is not a joke or exaggeration - you WILL die or become a cripple, anyone who tells you otherwise is an idiot and should not be taken seriously.
Aside from that, you're overvaluing the memories and the experiences due to FOMO. IOW you imagine the things you're missing out are some life changing events - they are not.
Finally grab a beer and chill for a bit. Making rush decisions out of desperation often makes one make really bad decisions.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
You are attempting to 'buy' yourself fun: it never works. Lots of people try it.
I have a motorcycle myself, and I love it, so I am not against the idea. But I would say this - true happiness is pleasure shared. So... you could easily spend $100k on a motorcycle and get bored of it.
OR
You could spend $1.5k on a motorcycle and join a group of friends, go out for group rides, learn about moto-camping, share some great experiences outdoors etc, make new friends and really have a good time.
I would do the second one.
Have a look on youtube for SBBA - this is 'small bikes big adventures'. There is a growing trend away from big powerful bikes (litre bikes) and towards smaller bikes, esp 125cc bikes. People realise that the smaller bikes are way more fun - they are great for touring at low speeds around country roads. You don't need to go fast to have fun.