This questions is moreso for the older, experienced guys. Give it to me straight. Should I get married?

I know that TRP is generally skeptical of marriage. I've read tons of material on TRP and other forums. I've watches countless videos about the benefits of marriage for men. I've asked many guys that I personally know. Overall I've received a mixed bag of opinions; some guys have been happily married for a long time, others got divorced and now feel jaded, and a few enjoy staying single.

I'm 28 years old. I've studied TRP for a long time and believe that I've mastered most aspects of it. I've banged my fair share of women. I've spun multiple plates at once, and I've jumped into a few LTRs. I eat well and stay fit. At such a young age I've managed to escape the W2 grind and have been building a business. I'm a homeowner. I hold leadership roles within my community. And so on.

It would be nice to have somebody to help around the house, share expenses, and support my endeavors. I'm also open to having kids someday, and I believe that marriage is the best institution for raising children, so I'd be interested in marrying a woman with whom I want to raise a family with. (The more I consider it, the more I think that raising a child is man's greatest challenge and accomplishment.)

I am currently in an LTR. We've been together for over a year, but knew each other for a few years prior. She is 25. Without getting deep into the weeds, our relationship is about as good as it gets. I've done a terrific job of maintaining frame and leading her. As such, she has been an incredible girlfriend so far.

Lately, quite a few people within our circle have gotten married and starting popping out babies. That has caused us to think about our future. We've had some intense conversations about the subject, and we've both been very mature and patient with each other while also stating our intentions and concerns.

In short, if I decide to get married, it will be with her. However, the concept of marriage doesn't seem to appealing to me. So I'm just trying to gather as much info/experience as I can before I make a decision.

I told her that I need more time to make a decision (like half a year). She seemed very understanding of that, and assured me that she isn't in a rush and doesn't want me to feel pressured. I also told her that we need to work on three things before I decide to propose.

1) Finances. We are both financially secure and have been pretty open about our situations. I feel like I need to understand her spending habits a little more specifically, and I would also like to help her with investing.

2) We need to make an effort to "live together" more often. We currently live in separate apartments. It would be nice to literally sleep with each other more often and generally spend more mundane time together to see if our lifestyles are compatible.

3) I want to build a deeper relationship with her father. She adores her dad. They have a great relationship. Her parents have been married for a long time. Her parents seem to like me, but I haven't spent much time alone with her dad, but I'd like to before I propose.

I also told her that if I propose, we must sign a pre-nup before we get hitched. No if and or buts. She seemed accepting and willing.

With all of that in mind, the thought of getting married has been swirling around my brain lately. I'm processing it by asking other men about it. So here I am. Share your thoughts below.