let's say you go to a bar and meet a girl, but only get her number and move on; how does it affect your chances with said girl, when she sees you approach and get the number of other girls? does it improve your chances or should you hide your subsequent approaches/change venues?
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
she'll shit test you harder
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
Because now your SMV is suspect since you didn’t leave with the first girl you approached? I.e. this is not a scenario where competition works in your favor?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
no....... BECAUSE your smv works in your favour....... more alpha, less beta...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
You ONLY got her number but she's also still there?
Why are you ONLY getting her number if she's still there? Why are you abandoning the set when she is there long enough to witness you get several other numbers. Yes it hurts you, why would you not try to close that more?
1) she ends the conversation so you only get her number: then why would you give a fuck in this scenario she didn't want you enough anyway
2) you walk away from the convo on purpose with only her number as a close: again why? If she was willing to give number why wouldn't you game more?
3) she has to leave and all you can get is her number: this scenario is the only one that makes any sense for gaming with intent
In scenario 1 or 2 your question doesn't even make sense to ask. In 1 you should write her off and in 2 you did that to yourself
Also you shouldn't be number closing women who don't have to leave. You should at the minimum be date-closing them and if they say yes then you ask for the number. Asking for a number in of itself is largely worthless unless you have awesome text game or can make enticing plans that they will give you a chance on.
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Depends on the girl and how you portrayed yourself.
If you've established yourself as more of a bad boy in your interaction with her, by not being afraid or not denying being a player along with radical honesty and lack of approval seeking, just raw authenticity, then the women who proceed with you after that can tell by your being that you get other women anyway.
If you play the "good guy looking for a relationship" card, obviously it'll turn her off as you're not being authentic.
What's authentic to me is being that radically honest guy who doesn't give a fuck about society's "rules" on relationship. I live by my own standards. Women who see me talking to other girls/other girls showing me signs of interest get jealous and compete to get my attention. It can only work in your favor if you're a winner.
I don't ever approach women in the way that these PUA's do acting like fucking hyenas, that just shows desperation. And @Vermillion-Rx is right. Why are you going around getting other numbers if the girl you're talking to is giving you signs that progress your dating strategy to completion? It just looks like you're thirsty for digits and validation from other women at this point.
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
It will increase your chances. As long as the other interaction goes well for you, as long as she thinks that the other girls is into you. For the following reasons;
User4566 1y ago
Why would you waste time getting her number at a bar? You really think she’s going to follow up with “that guy I met at the bar while I was buzzed”. The chances she’ll remember you are slim to none.
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
excellent point. You're just going to be one of 7 guys that she gave her number to that night. Women that give their numbers out are just obiter hunters. They want to add you to their harem of orbiters, so that you can make her phone go 'bing' which gives her dopamine.
Number hunting is dumb and retarded. The only reason to be gaming a woman is for action that night.