I have parties once in a while and I am always a little uncertain about whether to invite (multiple) prospects to them. In general I avoid inviting them because I don't want to risk unpredictable dynamics occurring. For example, if a prospect starts talking to somebody that knows me and they report to her that I was doing X with girl Y, that could be a problem. Also, there is no telling what could happen once two different prospects start talking to each other (or fighting with each other or storming out the door or whatever).
So, any opinions about this? Just damn the torpedoes, invite them and deal with the chaos, or keep being avoidant?
Lone_Ranger 3 1y ago
Of course you should. The ideal situation is when women realise that there is some competition for a guy. This is when they are on their absolute best behaviour, and their natural tendency for FOMO will have them begging for it. Most women will not bang a guy UNLESS they believe that there are other women who want to bang him.
This is why marriage sucks so badly in terms of getting laid. A wife gradually sees that her husband is not involved with any other women, and this gives her the dry.
The best case scenario is that the women will bicker over you. Ideally a cat fight would be nice. Word will spread, and all the girls in town will want some.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
If they're low-chance-of-fucking (eg you don't know them well), you invite multiple prospects, so long as you know how to handle it. The social credit and competition will work in your favour.
If you have a high chance of fucking them, don't invite them as you can only make it worse.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Prospects in which regard? Arent most hot girls prospects? Cant get them all, nobody even has the time for that. As long as they're not plates of yours, there's a limit to how any of their drama can touch you.
I say go for it but keep your plates out of it, unless you like to stir shit up, for good and bad.
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