I'm working on building up my plate rotation post LTR breakup. Went on a date last Friday with HB9, but am traveling for 2 weeks. She asked me to send pics, but I would rather only text for logistics. Is 2 weeks too long to pick things back up, or should I oblige and open up limited dialogue as I travel?
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EurasianChad 1 2y ago
Building a rotation from scratch with new women is a whole game. Never overinvest in women as she's trying to see if you're the Chad who has plenty of options and doesn't emotionally attach fast, doesn't crave her attention, and is a stoic rock that can walk away at any moment.
At the same time, this girl isn't emotionally invested enough for her to prioritize you. Idk how you acted during the date dude, but normally I too don't text other than to meet up or set something up.
You don't have to send her shit. She isn't your fucking mother
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
One more thing I'd add is that women's attachment to you grows in absence of contact. That's where she thinks about you, thinks if you're hanging other girls. Her emotional attachment takes time, I'm talking months.
Act like the abundant Chad you are. This is no big deal as youre used to this.
Instead of sending her updates like she tells her beta boyfriend or orbiters to do, post it as a story on insta.
When you get back, post a story of you being back. Let all your girls in the city know daddy's home. You can reinitiate this girl with a funny picture that reminds you of her (not cheesy), maybe something funny like a cactus. Idk man, make it a playful tease rather than a compliment or some gay shit that these betas do.
ChadifiedAsian 2y ago
Women have so many options now, especially with OLD. Regardless of how well it went, one date is not enough to get them attached, imo - let me know if you've seen it differently. I'm also not on social media, so no other way to really engaged subtly. Whether I lose her or not is not a big deal to me, but hoping to use this experience to run other plates as I travel this year.
EurasianChad 1 2y ago
Fair enough, social media has its utility both for business & for acquiring more leads/maintaining women in your rotation. You can leverage it to show status, etc etc. If you don't decide to use it, that's your prerogative.
No one date alone is not enough to get them attached, but one date is enough for me to sleep with majority of the women I get with. Some women have even pulled explicit escalation moves on me the first time I've met them, like if I was a girl I could probably file for harrassment and win. These things that happen in the first date can lead you down the path to getting them attached, although I will say not every single girl will sleep with you on the first time meeting you.
Yes they have many options with online dating but remember, they want the cream of the crop of all their options. I personally stopped using OLD this year despite having great results from it, and now only really use my IG (fitness business owner) and IRL situations to meet girls.
The focus is maxing yourself out as a man, this will lead to the most options. Keep doing what you're doing and never over invest in a particular girl. Always be willing to walk away. You keep improving yourself & keeping your power, and you'll be gucci. Good luck.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
text her some pics, keep things fresh in her head
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Being a text for logistics bro 24/7 is myopic. Her pussy isn't going to shrivel into dust from having some moments of rapport
nicknack 2y ago
I’ve picked things up with multiple girls after 1+ year so many times. As a matter of fact the longer the better. 1 month is kind of the minimum I’ll waited, 2 weeks is almost not enough. They absolutely love a guy who isn’t rushing for them. However this strat only works when you got other options, who you cycle this strat with, or else you get lonely and push the clock forward.