Met this hot girl at work event, she sent IOIs. We had a quick chat. Gamed a little but no time + had a plate already. Left the next day for work, for a few months. She had my name and added me on social media. We texted every day for those few months. Made plans to see each other once I'd come back. Spent 2 weeks together, sex was great, had a good feeling about it.
Had to leave again for 6 weeks, we agreed to try LDR/exclusivity. I won't be travelling anymore after those 6 weeks. LDR going well first 3 weeks, regular texts and videocalls. She sent lots of quality nudes. One night, during a video call, she seemed nervous and kept looking away. She texted me later: "I don't know why I was shy and embarrassed during our call." I asked why, but she said again she doesn't know. Had a bad gut feeling there but things are back to normal now.
She had stopped texting early the night before (Saturday night) though she'd sent me nudes Thursday/Friday nights and we'd texted. Turns out that weekend was also her ovulation period... Also recently learnt she cheated on LTR before and hid the whole thing (he still has no idea).
I think I will confront her about it soon. What do you guys think? (Sorry about the long read).
PS: got a BJ from a girl a few days later to feel better about it
JamesSkepp Moderator 1y ago
These 2 are mutually exclusive regardless of whether she cheated this time or not. Don't do LRD with hopes of making it into a not-LDR at some point in the future. If you want an example, consider this - what is a plate? It's a girl that lives separately from you, a girl that you see infrequently and a girl you see when you both want sex? What is an LDR girl? It's a girl that lives separately from you, that you see infrequently and one you can't see when you both want sex? So it's a plate but there's no sex involved.
EurasianChad 1 1y ago
Imagine seeing each other for 2 weeks and agreeing to LDR knowing you will rarely be seeing her and shes about to go travelling. You're making way too many emotional decisions here buddy. No offense but you deserve to be tricked, that should hammer the lesson into your head. Stop trusting bitches so easily.
She cheating on LTR is a HUGE RED FLAG.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
Whenever there is any doubt, there is no doubt.
The whole post reads like TRP satire tho. LDR's doesn't work, it's either long term or relationship.
Whiff of pussy and you're already offering exclusivity.
If she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you. Once cheater, always a cheater.
Your gut feeling is there for a reason, evolved for millions of years so you don't get cucked. Your subconscious mind detected something that your conscious mind couldn't, the pattern of her behavior. Always be looking at her behavior, not the mouth diarrhea.
Have you cheated on me? Yea
-No woman ever
ObliviousDuck 1y ago
I stopped reading at LDR.
Why do you care if your imaginary girlfriend has "cheated" on you, her imaginary boyfriend?